Hello, I had a semi-ELCS (maternal request during labour for various reasons that arose at the time, so not a true emergency) at UCLH last year. I'm pregnant again now and going for a VBAC but if it turns into another CS that's ok - I say that because the surgical team who performed my CS at UCLH and the whole experience of it was fantastic, or as fantastic as not-particularly-wanted surgery can be! (My experience of the care in my labour leading up to the CS was not so great but that's another thread!)
The surgeon who performed my CS was incredibly reassuring and kind - I had every faith in him, ditto the anaesthetist. They actually transformed my experience there from being pretty negative in labour to something much more positive. The whole team in theatre were so calm, so jolly (in the right way) and completely professional. Honestly they couldn't have been better.
Stitches: I had the kind that I believe are pretty standard now, the kind MsKitten mentions - the continuous stitch with beads. There was no pain whatsoever on removal - the midwife who visited me at home just removed it. There was no suggestion from her it was painful ie no pain relief offered etc! Honestly I felt it less than you would removing a plaster. I did have numbness around the incision and my GP said women tend to have either numbness or hypersensitivity so perhaps if you fell into the latter camp it might hurt but they just slid out - couldn't have been easier or quicker.
Painkillers: As routine I was offered Oramorph (liquid morphine), which I had a couple of doses of, and three types of tablets of codeine (high dose - 30mg I think), diclofenac and paracetamol. However I believe there is new guidance now with regard to breastfeeding so I suspect they no longer offer the codeine and perhaps not the diclofenac. Someone here posted a link to the Breastfeeding Network on this, sorry I can't find right now but it was recent and helpful.
I agree with Gooseysgirl that diclofenac was fantastic. Codeine made me so sleepy and oblivious and the pain was definitely not so bad that it was necessary to be out of it. In fact I barely remember the pain at all - not me being brave but it was not that bad plus I think the haze (in a good way) you are in after the birth, combined with fatigue (in my case waters broke at midnight so started labour minus a night of sleep and then laboured for almost 24 hours) blur the edges for sure. Obviously recovery varies and involves so many other factors (one of my best friends had a much harder time with her first CS for instance) but really it's fine.
Diclofenac helped a lot especially with the afterpains of the womb contracting back to shape which I did feel kind of combined with the incision pain. Paracetamol alone was not enough I agree.
The post-natal ward was very busy but there was help available. My DH was there and we soon after got an amenity (private) room but nevertheless the midwifery assistants especially were very sweet and helpful.
Sorry for huge essay!
Hope that helps but feel free to ask more - I definitely know what it's like to have heaps of questions in advance of the birth! 