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Childbirth

Terrified new mum sitting in postnatal ward with baby in neonatal care.

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Charingcrossbun · 24/03/2014 12:37

Just need a hug!
Warning though - scary birth story.
Had baby at 0624 this morning - after "good" birth in pool but baby's heart beat started to drop so they whipped me out and pushed him out in stirrups with a million midwives helping. Cord was 3 times around his neck and he was pale and floppy. Staff were awesome and are being really positive, he was with a Dr in minutes and then into specialised care - breathing on own,
heart beat good, sucking reflex, normal sleep waking brain activity - but I had a retained placenta
so have just come out of theatre (all removed and sorted) and have to wait until I can get in a wheelchair (spinal block) before I can see him again! DP has seen him obv and Drs have been giving me updates but that doesn't make this less scary!
Despite everything looking positive it was clear that baby was stressed during birth and swallowed Miconium as well as having less oxygen than is ideal - they describe him as grizzly- so they are going to cool him over the next 3 days to prevent brain damage....
I'm just siting her in a bed eating the lunch provided doing nothing.Hmm..... Feels awful!

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ILickPicnMix · 27/03/2014 08:06

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callamia · 27/03/2014 11:18

You hero!
That he's bf on demand already is magnificent. How brilliant for you both. You'll be out in no time.

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ThePequod · 27/03/2014 11:56

Congratulations OP! And may I second ILickPicnMix's advice to rest while you are in hospital. Lie on the bed all day (apart from being summoned to feed your lovely baby of course!) and enjoy having your feet up. You're doing such a fab job for your son.

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splasheeny · 27/03/2014 20:39

Congratulations on your baby. I didn't want to read and run, I hope all works out for you.

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Bankholidaybaby · 29/03/2014 11:38

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Charingcrossbun · 29/03/2014 14:09

Thank you bankholiday.
Edward was full term and 11days but clearly a dare devil as he decided to wear his cord wrapped around his neck 3 times. Everyone in the nicu has been amazing and the genuine little acts of kindness (smiles, hugs, extra biscuits with a cup of tea) have really restored my faith in humanity!
Edward has done really well and even moved into a room with me. The doctors have a few more tests but they are optimistic we will take him home this weekend. Grin
I know I am really lucky - the work done by charities such as bliss is amazing.

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Wheresmysocks · 29/03/2014 14:16

Congratulations on your lovely little boy.

Glad things are improving for you both.

Take care & enjoy!

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Bankholidaybaby · 01/04/2014 10:41

How are things today, charing?

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CountBapula · 01/04/2014 10:46

Glad he's doing well, charing - how scary for you. (Count here from the 'argh - induction' thread.) Congratulations and best wishes to you all Thanks

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educatingarti · 01/04/2014 11:52

Yay! Well done Edward! Hope everything is still improving!

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Charingcrossbun · 02/04/2014 09:47

Thanks guys - nice to hear from you count!!
Edward and I are very good. We came home on Mother's Day which was ace!. Just had his 9day weigh in and he's put on 2lbs and peed all over the midwife so all good Grin

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educatingarti · 02/04/2014 11:27

Grin Glad you are both at home!

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callamia · 03/04/2014 09:28

2lbs is epic! Congratulations on getting home.
Hope it's going well Smile

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