Has anyone got any first (or second) -hand experience of using an independent (i.e. private) midwife for their (NHS hospital) birth?
The birth of my first child in 1999 left me with doubts about the level and standard of midwife cover in NHS hospitals and I wondered about investigating the possibility of having my 'own' midwife there for the birth of No. 2 in July.
With ds I had 3 midwives over 15 hours (none of whom I'd ever met before) and the last one, who turned up just as I was getting into 2nd stage seemed virtually unable to speak any English, other than shouting "Pooosh into your bottom" at me and didn't understand when I said I wanted to change position etc etc. I ended up with an emergency CS, and still can't help feeling that with better MW care and communication might have avoided this.
Is an independent MW there for you all the way through? How do they work alongside the NHS MWs - can they administer pain relief etc etc?