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Would like a C-section... But how can I make sure I can have one???

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johull · 23/12/2013 07:28

Wondering if you ladies can help me. I'm desperate for C sec.

I am a very anxious person, I'm worried about giving birth but also have some back trouble, and am very worried in case my back goes during labour. I am 26 and live in Surrey. What do I say to my midwife to ensure a C- sec? How likely is it that they'll say yes?

Thanks in advance.

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mamicar · 23/12/2013 07:32

Are you under midwife led care or consultant?

johull · 23/12/2013 07:37

Midwife

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BettyBi0 · 23/12/2013 08:34

What kind of back trouble to you have? I'm just asking as I've had some problems with my own back which is why I'm having a CS. I injured my back at 20 weeks pregnant and although it started as a bad back sprain - no broken bones or whiplash or anything - as my bump grew it became much more complicated as things got pulled further out of line.

I found that midwives were generally very sympathetic as they have experience of pregnant women suffering pain and mobility probs from SPD etc. However, SPD or back problems aren't an automatic indication for a CS. In fact my Dr said a CS could be more damaging for my back long term as the temporary damage from cutting through stomach muscles and disrupting core strength can exacerbate existing back problems in a way a natural birth wouldn't.

However, when my back deteriorated to the point of having more nerve involvement, such as sciatica symptoms down one leg and increasing numbness in my bottom and fanjo etc, the MW and Drs started taking worries over the birth way more seriously. My physio warned me how the increased nerve involvement and numbness might be a sign of loss of continence being around the corner (eeeek!) and I talked this over with the MW and obstetrician. My worry was that my back problem had limited my mobility so much that I wouldn't labour well and I was concerned that my existing pain and muscle contractures would hinder the birth process and I'd be very high risk for interventions at the end. Also very worried about permanent nerve damage to continence.

Dr and MW were very supportive of CS in the end and I've been booked to have this done at 37+6 to minimise risks of permanent nerve damage in my back from huge bump in later stages.

Sorry it's a bit long winded but my general advice would be:

  1. Get a referral from your MW to a specialist pregnancy physio early on
  2. Do their exercises, follow their advice about changes (eg they told me to really limit my walking/stairs, wear a serola belt them later another kind of brace, then crutches etc..)
  3. Any signs of nerve involvement rather than more general back or SPD symptoms flag up ASAP as this really changed their approach to my birth
  4. Make protecting your back from deteriorating a real priority as all the relaxin and preg hormones loosen things up and can make simple problems get very complicated and scary. I wish I had rested more early on and started wearing the back belt earlier.
  5. Talk to your dr and physio about postures and positions that cause you more pain or set your back off - if there is risk of more damage from you being in the kinds of positions they would use for forceps etc.

It all counts towards your case if you really want a CS. But think seriously about whether you really want one - loss of core stomach strength impacting on back pain, major surgery etc. But maybe you'll decide that the element of control from a CS in how you and your back are treated in labour will be the deciding factor.

Also, you may have to have a special back assessment re: safety of epidural/spinal for CS if you have an existing injury. Would you still want a CS if you had to have a general anaesthetic instead and miss the birth?

All very complicated! I hope you reach a decision that works for you and that your Dr and MW support xx

johull · 23/12/2013 09:23

That's incredible.
Thanks so much for all your advice. I have had slipped discs in the past , the curve of my spine is too pronounced and therefore any additional weight etc, will be trouble. The birth is going to be bad no matter what, I just want to feel safe knowing that my baby can come out as quickly and efficiently as possible. I think if I had to give birth naturally, in this much pain, I don't think i could cope.

I am glad they have opted to give you a C/section. I bet you feel a lot better knowing it's all booked in and ready and no matter how your back is feeling, everything will be ok. I just hope for the same piece of mind :-)

Xx

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SquidgersMummy · 23/12/2013 10:14

OP I could have written your post ...however despite trying I had a vag del and it was fine and I was really put off the c section option after taking to a few women who blame epidural for back problems. Seriously - look into this. I am just saying for me I was anxious - I was using my back as a way to try and control the birth - I used a hypnobirthing cd and felt so different. I was grinning when labour started - I was no longer frightened or convinced terrible things would happen to the baby in labour. My back is bad and my stomach muscles are what keeps me going. Cut stomach muscles would be awful for a bad back. A c section might feel safer but there is a long recovery and then with any new baby more bending and lifting than you can ever imagine. I was so worried about my back and birthing - when it came to it a TENS, pool and G&A were so helpful and I never gave my back one thought - except to marvel that literally the min you deliver it all feels much better. My torn disc and SP were instantly soothed. I'm just saying if it's anxiety about the birth you should address that first, don't undertake a c section lightly as it could be a lot worse for your back.....hugs, it really will be ok xxxx

RedPencilPot · 23/12/2013 10:28

Is it just the back trouble that makes you want a c section or would you want one anyway?

sunflowered · 24/12/2013 08:51

I don't have anything knowledgeable to add to the posts above about your back worries, but really hope you get the support you need from your mw/dr so that your birth goes well.

What I'd add to the above is to maybe consider hypnobirthing or active birthing classes if they're an option for you? I've been doing daisy birthing classes which have been good for learning how the body works for you during labour, how to help you stay relaxed, and to help you respond to the different things your body's going through. If you're not able to have elcs, this sort of technique could help you stay calm and (relatively...) in control during labour. The hormones you release when you're stressed can make things harder for you so if you can do anything to manage your anxiety over labour it could help you to get through it without it becoming the negative experience you're expecting of it.

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