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Negativity toward epidural in UK?

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wispaxmas · 08/12/2013 17:59

Hello, ding a search, I found a discussion on this from 2010, though there might have been others more recently. I'm from Canada, it's much much much more common to have an epidural there, and in fact I only know one person who didn't have one in childbirth, and there was no difference between the labours - I don't know anyone who needed assistance like ventouse or forceps, either.

I understand that statistically there is an increase in the need for assisted delivery, but I'm not convinced it's entirely causally related - a more difficult labour is more likely to cause both the mother to request an epidural and also to cause the need for assistance, and the other risks to mom are so small especially with mobile epidurals, that I can't understand the extreme negativity towards epidurals in this country.

I'm only just shy of 15 weeks, so obviously thinking a ahead at the moment, but I've been thinking about my booking in appt recently, as I have my next appointment next week. After going through all the notes and labelling my as low risk, the midwife asked where I would preliminarily like to give birth. I said a definite no to home birth and no to the midwife led unit, as I wanted to have the option of an epidural if I wanted one.

Her response was to write down that I was told to go with the midwife led unit, with no mention whatsoever that I wanted a hospital birth. She told me also that women who wanted the option of epidurals more often than not got them. Uhh, no shit Sherlock. I've done a fair amount of research into it, I feel quite confident that I'm aware of the risks, and at this point I'm comfortable with them and would be happy to have an epidural in labour, and quite frankly, I'm upset that I've been told I shouldn't have one without being given the data to support the advice. I'm being treated like a child when I am in fact a very well educated and independent woman able to make informed decisions about my care (this pertains to almost all advice given to us while pregnant).

Argh, sorry for long post. I guess my point in posting is to know if anyone else has experienced the same, or what your views are.

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minifingers · 11/12/2013 09:25

Chunderella - maternity services are very stretched, and many women are getting a raw deal at the moment, not just women who want quick access to epidurals but also those who want one to one care, case loading care, and access to waterbirth services.

You are right that it is very hard to unpick the causal relationship between epidural and birth complications. The majority of challenging births involve an epidural. Perhaps you can argue that midwives and mothers don't know any other way of dealing with very long and dysfunctional labours any more. That's why I find the place of birth study findings so interesting. The reduction in serious interventions experienced by healthy women who opt to labour in settings where epidurals are unavailable is SO striking. It really does warrant further analysis.

fairypangolin · 11/12/2013 10:07

All of my friends in Canada had natural births with midwives, two were at home. The 'culture' seemed very similar to the UK in terms of birth options. I think it probably depends where you live and your own attitudes.

I had an epidural with my first labour because it was prolonged and needed augmentation with syntocinon. By that point I believed I was too exhausted to deal with the heightened, strong contractions. My second was at home with a birth pool and gas and air. Although the contractions were much much stronger than with my first it was over in 2 hours and I had an incredible high afterwards. That alone is a reason not to have an epidural in my opinion. If I had my first labour to do over again I would have said no to the epidural even with augmentation because I think it slowed everything down. Also, although I couldn't feel the pain of the contractions, I had a very bad ache in my back and legs throughout the epidural and not being able to move made me very uncomfortable and unhappy. They tried resiting it but it made no difference. So epidural does not necessarily equal no discomfort.

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katieks · 11/12/2013 14:24

With my first birth, I wanted a water birth. Therefore didn't want epidural. I didn't get the water birth as it was too late and I was pushing before pool filled (I was only at hospital for about 30min and they had me waiting in maternity ward kitchen whilst they 'got the room ready')?! At one point I was begging for an epidural but I believed them when they said it was too late, since it probably was.

With second birth, I wanted an epidural. Told it was too early. Asked again and again, eventually told it's now too late. I was soooo angry at that point because I just felt they had lied to me. Also, I specifically asked about a mobile epidural with midwife at last check up and she said they don't do them. Latter was at Swindon.

I think there is a epidural avoidance culture overall. Saying that, I did a week on labour ward as part of my degree course. That's 7x 12 hour shifts. EVERY epidural lady had intervention! Ventouse, Forceps, whatever. That's why I didn't want it with first birth. With second however, I really wanted one as I knew the pain was horrendous. We'll see what happens with next baby. I'm going to be asking for that epidural before I even arrive so that anaesthetist is there waiting and ready!

minifingers · 11/12/2013 14:36

Also one to one care for women with epidurals Chunderella!

Can I just say, most women I know who opted for a homebirth don't feel they have particularly high pain thresholds. In fact the opposite is sometimes true. Certainly it was in my case. I knew I was likely to have a difficult labour and stayed away from the labour ward because I felt my pain would be unmanageable in that environment.

Chunderella · 11/12/2013 14:37

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minifingers · 11/12/2013 14:40

Chunderella - in my opinion both birth and death are barbaric. One day we may find a way to avoid both of them, but at the moment it's part and parcel of being a human being. For me the only comfort is to be treated with compassion and kindness during these events, and to treat them as an opportunity for spiritual growth (until the day we can sanitise them out of existence - roll on Brave New World: babies growing in bottles and a branch of Dignitas on ever high street).

Chunderella · 11/12/2013 14:43

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blu3sky · 11/12/2013 16:02

I've not read the full thread but wanted to mention as someone said there were no complications from epidurals. I never got a epi-avoidance vibe and the midwife suggested an epidural with my first when I wasn't coping with the syntocin (it really really ramps up the pain/contractions and I was in and out of conciousness. I was doing perfectly well without it but they needed the labour to speed up as they needed the bed :( ). It was meant to be a mobile epidural but the anaesthetist accidently went in too far and gave me a spinal block (used for c/s). That may have been to do with the double shift he was on and his obvious tiredness that the midwife commented on at the time. There's a migraine problem that happens in 1/200 for epis but 1/3 for spinals. You leak fluid from the injection site which lowers brain pressure causing pain when not horizontal. This happened to me. You have two options then - ten days entirely flat to naturally heal or a second spinal/blood patch which means more time in hospital. The other problem is infection. They were paranoid about it from having two spinals in two days. I'm still glad I had the epi with the syntocin because I was going into shock and it would have ended with a crash section otherwise which has a much longer recovery time.

TarkaTheOtter · 11/12/2013 16:11

katieks my epidural was Swindon and whilst they never called it a mobile epidural it was patient-controlled and light enough that I could feel lots of pressure to push (just no pain). I don't know if I could have been mobile as I was on my back for other reasons - had drips in each arm and monitoring so moving around was v complicated - but I was definitely up and about very quickly afterwards. Ie before I left the delivery suite post birth.

TarkaTheOtter · 11/12/2013 16:14

I agree Chunderella even if you are only looking at data where women have a choice over birth location the sample is still self-selecting. There is no "true" control group/random sample.

minifingers · 11/12/2013 16:22

I think birth is pretty barbaric. The pain is absolutely unspeakable. Then there's the blood, the shit, the tears.

Chunderella · 11/12/2013 16:36

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TarkaTheOtter · 11/12/2013 17:08

I was given an epidural when I asked for one (once I felt that I wasn't coping with the pain) and I didn't find birth barbaric at all. It was very calm and I felt very clear-headed and in control.

minifingers · 11/12/2013 17:23

Ah well Chunderella - it's not all about you. ;-)

Most women produce a stool during labour.

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janey68 · 11/12/2013 18:13

I think the points about place of birth are really significant. Out of 8 of us first time mums in my NCT class, I was the only one opting for a MLU birth. 6 of the others could have chosen MLU (one was deemed high risk pregnancy so didn't have the option) That woman had a very medicalised birth but given the complicated pregnancy that was probably unavoidable. Of the other 6 women, 5 ended up with epidurals, and most had ventouse or forceps, episiotomy etc. Given that we were all low risk pregancies, we all had the option of MLU delivery and all of the group were keen to have as natural a birth as possible (hence attending NCT sessions which focused heavily on non invasive pain relief) it does seem that place of birth is very significant.

Chunderella · 11/12/2013 20:44

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londonkiwi · 12/12/2013 09:32

For me, an epidural for DC1 was wonderful! I went into labour hoping for drug free but open to an epidural if it seemed the best option.

After 14 hours of active labour in which I was drug free and active (walking/bouncing on birth ball) I had remained 5cm dilated for at least 8 hours.

I then went on a syntocinon drip to intensify the contractions, so at this point decided to have an epidural as well.

Whilst lying flat on my back and pain-free I dilated to 10cm over a number of hours and was able to push my baby out as by that point the epidural had mostly worn off.

DC2 came only a few hours of active labour and gas and air were sufficient, but I have no regrets about an epidural for DC1!

minifingers · 12/12/2013 10:07

"Or being the type of person who will choose MLU"

Chunderella - you can't categorise a person according to what sort of birth environment they choose. Many women choose to go to a MLU because they feel they will be safer there, because they know that their local labour ward is ridiculously busy or understaffed, or because they're frightened of needles and think they might be less likely to have to be poked with one in labour if they go to the birth centre. This doesn't mean that they think they're tough, or have massive confidence in their ability to cope in labour. Or that they are massively confident in their body's ability to labour well. Most go to an MLU thinking they will see how things go. Nobody knows how they will cope in labour, including those people who generally believe they have a low pain threshold. I can't tell you how many women I've met who start their birth story saying 'I'm an absolute wimp and terrified of pain, but I coped in labour and I don't know how'.

And lots of women choose homebirths because they've had hideous and traumatic births in hospital, on the labour ward. And I say that as someone who has worked as a volunteer homebirth support person for the NCT for 10 years. I have met and spoken to many, many women about their reasons for choosing to have their baby at home.

As for being 'keen on a natural birth' - are there actually people out there who WANT an emergency c/s or forceps delivery? As far as I can see ALL women who are not having a planned c/s would prefer to get their baby out vaginally and without the use of instruments (ie 'naturally'), if it can be done safely.

Chunderella · 12/12/2013 14:45

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minifingers · 12/12/2013 15:01

mrsmugoo - you need to ask for this information from the units you are choosing between - they will have it. National statistics are a bit pointless, as some units transfer vastly more mothers than others.

minifingers · 12/12/2013 15:03

"It sounds like you're defining it as widely as possible, ie all women who deliver vaginally without augmentation or instruments, regardless of whether they have anaesthesia or not."

Yes - because other ways of describing it aren't actually all that useful or meaningful.

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