Hi all,
Am due for first child in France (currently 25 w). Whole process here quite different and in UK I would have tried a waterbirth in mid-wife unit, with as little intervention as possible.
Although my hospital isn't as bad as I feared in terms of hyper-medicalisation (they aren't obsessed with epidurals and actually have birth balls plus gas&air), I have run into a 'non-negotiable'.
I would have asked in UK to try for a physiological 3rd stage and see how it went e.g. wait an hour, but here either you accept the injection at the moment the baby's shoulder comes out, or you cannot have it at all (as they worry placenta will get stuck if you leave it later- you have to have surgery to remove if it's not out within 30 mins following birth!).
I didn't want managed 3rd stage if I could avoid it because of anecdotal accounts of increased pain + post-partum bleeding and worries about having large dose of synthetic oxytocin in my system just as I'm trying to meet the baby.
But given that they don't even wait until it's out here to give it, this also seems to not be compatible on my desire to not cut the cord until it's stopped pulsing- although they are saying that that is no problem.
So my questions (sorry for long intro)
- should I just accept managed 3rd stage rather than risk it going wrong and not being able to have it later
- should I worry about having the injection before the baby is out and cord is cut- effects on baby and me?
Thanks for any advice 