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40+3 and wondering if my planned home water birth may go out the window?!

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Lion5711 · 26/10/2013 19:33

This is my second, ds born at 38 +4 (now realising how bloody easy that was!) I'm planning a water birth at home, but wondered what the general feedback was on going over and having a sweep etc? My dates initially worked out as 15th oct (so I would be 10 days over now) but will go on scan dates I guess. Very desperate for this labour to start and remind me how painful but rewarding it is!

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Angrybudda · 26/10/2013 19:41

My 1st DS was at 37+6 . So was convinced my second would come earlier than that. I also planned to have a home birth, and did at 42+1. So a late arrival. If you are health and so is baby home birth, should still be an option! I had four sweeps before he made an appearance.

Good luck.

Lion5711 · 26/10/2013 20:06

Oh you don't know how pleased I am to hear that it is possible, I'm feeling quite emotional about it all now, as I had naively expected another early one! I'm not seeing my midwife until Tuesday and she said she will sweep then. I think it's just the general feeling from others around me that having a home birth is a bit silly and going over instantly means induction and hospital. Thanks!

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Angrybudda · 26/10/2013 20:55

I had two home births and highly recommend them. I would of had all of mine as home births but that can't always be a choice. Your midwife should give you more of an insight but as long as everything seems ok you should be fine! Overdue especially for the first two weeks is not a reason to be induce and forced into having to go into hospital.

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princesscupcakemummyb · 26/10/2013 21:09

hi op im booked for a homebirth but went overdue twice last time to 41 weeks anyways im 39 weeks now and the midwife told me i can still have a home birth up to 16 days overdue if daily monitoring at hospital is done basically can refuse induction for me ive already decided if i go to the 12 days i will accept induction in hospital ive a sweep booked for this tuesday so hope i wont but anyway good luck op and hope your baby comes soon Grin

marjean · 26/10/2013 21:12

Just hang on in there. Days 'overdue' seem to last forever, particularly when earlier babies have been early.

I have had 3 dcs, all at home. DC1 was 1 week early, DC2 was 2 weeks early. I fully expected DC3 to be 3 weeks early but was in fact 11 days past my due date! All was fine though, lovely home water birth.

hazchem · 28/10/2013 08:05

It's shit isn't it when the due date comes and sails by. I kept reminding myself that due is 42 weeks. Over due is 42 +1.

Can you get some acupuncture? It can help. Can you go to a movie? Or get out and about somewhere so you are taking your mind off it? Hoping it starts soon.

Lion5711 · 29/10/2013 02:28

Yippee!! We did it...baby born this morning at home in the water! Very quick and such a lovely lovely relief. I did have to go to hospital as I needed quite a few stitches but the amazing feeling of having him in our home and water was fantastic! Thanks for all the support.

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mustardtomango · 29/10/2013 03:26

Congratulations!! X

pebblepots · 29/10/2013 05:06

Well done! Lovely news

Angrybudda · 29/10/2013 07:46

Great news. Congratulations.

marjean · 01/11/2013 20:34

Brilliant! Congratulations! Smile

BetterWithCheese · 01/11/2013 20:46

Fabulous news!! So pleased for you. Congrats on the new baby Smile

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