Yes, nettiemc, my post is slightly above yours.
Community MW thought at 35wks that DD was breech when my fundal height measurements went all wobbly and she thought she could feel a head at te top of my bump. She didn't refer me for a scan because the hospital phone number was engaged 
When I went back to the MW a week later (same MW right the way through) she told me that DD was head down and fully engaged.
At 40wks I had a show and niggling contractions so at 40+1 went to the MW to ask for a sweep to help things along. I saw a different MW who checked me over before doing the sweep and spotted straight away that DD was breech, Doppler backed it up (heartbeat was loudest in the top of my bump where DDs chest was).
I went for a scan that day to confirm the position - flexed breech - and they booked me for an ECV at 40+3 but told me that if my labour progressed or my waters broke I needed to ring an ambulance and would have an emergency section. They have me information on ECV and on caesarean delivery, had a chat through my questions, then we went home.
On the Wednesday, 40+3, I went for the ECV but it couldn't be done as DD had the cord wrapped around her legs, the remaining cord was coiled over my cervix, and she had barely any amniotic fluid (just a pool in front of her face 3cm deep).
I'd had a big show that morning and my contractions were progressing. They explained about having a vaginal birth if I wanted one (which what I mentioned in my previous birth) but really the safest option was a section before I dilated far enough for the cord over my cervix to prolapse.
I went straight from the scan room to theatre for an emergency section - my appointment was 10:30 and I had DD at 11:30 :o
In hindsight, the MW should have referred me when she first suspected a breech. She also should have listened when I told her I wasn't getting any kicks at all, just a round bulging thing in the top of my bump (obviously a head). I was supposed to have the same MW this time and she did my booking in but I changed MWs straight after as I've got no trust in her.