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So, not an *ideal* start...

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mynameisnotmichaelcaine · 15/09/2013 05:29

Am currently 40+13 with my third. Elder two are nine and seven, had straightforward labours with both, both slightly over dates but nowhere near this over.

Went in to be induced yesterday. Was a bit gutted about this, as had ds at home, and it was very intervention free, so this felt very different. Still, was very excited to be meeting baby at long last.

We arrived at 8am and the place was packed. Waited for three hours. Finally was told that as I was essentially healthy and baby is in no immediate distress, they would do a sweep and send me home. I was gutted, but understood - it wasn't their fault after all.

The consultant who did the sweep said "if you don't go into labour overnight, I'll eat my hat." I hope he likes the taste of hats. Have had a show, but after that absolutely nothing whatsoever. Woke at 3am, mind racing. Have to be back in hospital at 8. now I am going to be knackered. That's if I'm not sent home. Again.

Would love some words of encouragement from you wonderful ladies. Feeling a bit despondent right now. Why doesn't this baby want to come? We all really want meet him/her!

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CalamityJones · 15/09/2013 05:35

My dd was born at 40+13 (although labour started at 40+11, stubborn little bugger). And like you, I was exhausted before I even began - I literally fell asleep in the birthing pool!

But. It was all fine and you'll be fine too and at some point in the very near future you'll be meeting your delicious squidgy little baby and everything will be wonderful. Good luck x

SpottyTeacakes · 15/09/2013 05:35

Oh poor you that sounds so frustrating. I've no advice as both my inductions were preterm. It's best they sent you home though rather than you not bring able to have adequate care. There's still time for you to go into labour naturally Smile

Isabeller · 15/09/2013 05:38

I am awake and really sympathise with the knackeredness. I'm only 20 weeks but not sleeping well and a lot of stuff to deal with. I can't imagine how you are feeling right now. Have some Flowers and join me in a lovely fantasy where we are waited on hand and foot Smile.

workingtitle · 15/09/2013 07:46

Just wanted to say thinking of you. What would you like to happen today? Induction? I hope you get to meet your baby very, very soon Flowers

mynameisnotmichaelcaine · 15/09/2013 08:21

Thank you all - looking a bit brighter now, have been given a bed and am in some vague pain. Hooray!

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SpottyTeacakes · 15/09/2013 08:25

Woo hoo! Won't be long now make sure you update us Smile

mynameisnotmichaelcaine · 15/09/2013 08:56

Will do, thank you, you've all made me feel much better, and it might be rather a long day (and night), so might well be back later feeling sorry for myself again! However it really helps to know I won't be sent home again without my baby :)

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PacificDogwood · 15/09/2013 09:07

Ah, you poor thing?
I hope things will be happening today for you.
Fwiw, ds1 appeared after induction at T+15 after I had declined induction the day before because I thought things were happening anyway...
Good luck!Smile

PacificDogwood · 15/09/2013 09:08

Sorry, errant '?' - sausage fingers on idiotPhone

toisa · 15/09/2013 09:18

Oh no! Major sympathies..... Bubba will he here in the next day or two... Hang in there.

You have, however, made me panic slightly! I'm pg with 3rd and older 2 are also 9 and 7. Hoping for hb also and didn't go much overdue before... Sound familiar??!

Keep us posted....

mynameisnotmichaelcaine · 15/09/2013 09:25

Don't panic Tosia, I definitely think it's possible to channel your inner home birther in hospital. And it almost certainly won't come to that for you! When are you due? This baby was a bit of a surprise to say the least, but we can't wait now!

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PacificDogwood · 15/09/2013 13:26

Is the a baby to admire yet?

Hoping you are doing well, whatever the state of play just now Smile

PacificDogwood · 15/09/2013 13:26

there

I can type, honest, I can!

mynameisnotmichaelcaine · 15/09/2013 22:42

There is :) Casper James, born at 2:30pm after a very quick and quite scary labour! He's just found his lungs! 9lbs 3oz, which is 10oz smaller than his brother was, so he looks teeny to me! :)

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neolara · 15/09/2013 22:47

Congratulations. Welcome to the world Casper.

workingtitle · 15/09/2013 23:05

Congratulations, so pleased he arrived safe and well Smile Hope you're both doing very well indeed.

SpottyTeacakes · 16/09/2013 05:06

Yay congratulations!

CalamityJones · 16/09/2013 06:37

Congratulations!

PacificDogwood · 16/09/2013 17:09

Oh congratulations Smile!
What a boy - well done!

Enjoy getting to know him x.

Isabeller · 17/09/2013 08:35

Grin Flowers

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