Hi I am looking for some advice please.
I have gestational diabetes and am taking insulin injections to control it. I was under the impression that I would be induced at 38 weeks but I have been now told I will be induced at 40 weeks. I was very surprised but my new midwife was quite dismissive saying it's best for the baby to be in another two weeks and I could ask the consultant to deliver early but it would depend on what kind of mood they are in.
I am feeling very unnerved by this..
I am 41, this is my one and only baby and I am concerned that no other option has been discussed with me. Wouldn't an ELCS be better? I asked why I couldn't be induced at 38 weeks and was told that the failure rate is higher which leads to CS. I am also concerned about placenta failure but have been told that there is no difference in chance.
I feel totally dismissed, like it's up to them how my baby is to be delivered and I have no say it in. I have another appointment in two weeks. I asked if I would see the consultant and was told, "Maybe", or that I might see a Dr.
I don't want an induction or a c-section - I want what's best for my baby but I don't trust their current judgement. Any advice? Many thanks.