I know it's early to be thinking about it - I'm only 13 weeks - but I just don't know what is for the best. The situation is that I have had 2 emcs, both for failure to progress, with dd I got to 4 cm and with ds (failed vbac) I got to 7 cm. I know this in itself is not a reason not to go for it, but the problem is that neither baby engaged At All. In fact, ds was moving around so much in labour that although I had a scan early in labour (they thought he might be breech) when he was in the perfect position apart from "bobbing around the brim", but when he was lifted out he had the cord twice around his neck and was face presenting! One consultant who examined me muttered something about an abnormal pelvic brim but did not elaborate.
I don't know from all this whether i have no chance of a successful vbac, and therefore an elcs would be best, or whether to go for it and cope with the probable disappointment. Any advice from anyone - especially midwives I guess - would be much appreciated.