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Childbirth

Share experiences and get support around labour, birth and recovery.

Is anyone giving birth alone?

34 replies

PleaseDoNotAdjustYourSet · 03/07/2013 13:33

Looks like I'll have to be. We have no childcare arrangements for dc1 and running out of time.

Dh and I are sad he won't get to see dc2 born.

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Shellywelly1973 · 04/07/2013 10:57

With my last 2 babies i was indifferent about dp being at the birth. I gave birth in a birth center with both of them so dp could have stayed the night but i didn't really feel the need for him to stay.

Its about how you feel...

I hope you manage to sort some childcare or find peace in the decision to be by yourself.

Take care.

PleaseDoNotAdjustYourSet · 05/07/2013 18:48

Thank you shelly

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Sorelip · 09/07/2013 14:08

I know I'm coming to this late, but I'm in Kennington, near Waterloo. If you haven't got anyone else yet, let me know and I'll send you my mobile number.

QueenofWhispers · 09/07/2013 15:25

Your thread made me cry! Being pregnant doesn't help. I'm in notting hill and you can borrow my nanny if you'd like!

QueenofWhispers · 09/07/2013 15:27

I've volunteered her with permission she asked why I was sad, and I told her and she said she would love to help. x

TeamSouthfields · 09/07/2013 17:42

This wont offend anyone.....

Look at agency's like likeminders.co.uk... They do birth cover!

TeamSouthfields · 09/07/2013 17:43

Im in london Wimbledon. Im a nanny and happy to help out!

Roxie84 · 13/07/2013 00:48

Without wanting to I gave birth to my 2nd child on my own, hospital didn't ring my partner or my sister in time so they missed the birth, but I can tell u I much preferred that to my 1st child, with my 2nd I went in the delivery room gave birth and was on a ward fairly quickly, there was no one fussing me or rubbing my back or talking jibberish just to say something, I went in cracked on with it listened to the midwives and was sitting up having tea by the time my hubby got there! Nice and easy no stress no fuss! X

spanbo · 22/07/2013 17:20

Hi I just saw your message and my heart went out to you. I am a trainee doula based in east London I have attended 5 births already and would be very willing to offer my help if it was needed. I know how important it is to have the right support during birth and am not charging at the moment as I have not finished all my training but have references if you needed them. Let me know if I could be of help in anyway.

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