How common is this? My DS has bilateral haematoma following a natural homebirth. The lumps are still prominent at 4 weeks and paedeatrician suggested they may take as long as 18 months to go down fully. He explained that the trauma had happened during labour and was the force of DS 's head bashing against the birth canal ( he was back to back and it was an excruciating labour- although he's my first so nothing really to compare it to).
Have been told it's nothing to worry about but I can't get it out of my head...everyone who sees him assumes he was a forceps delivery and the thought that my own body did that to him all by itself just feels horrific! I keep wondering if there was anything I could have done differently. Has anyone else experienced anything similar?
(Nb. I'm probably just being hormonal!)