Just that really. DC1 7 months and was always the plan to have children close together but after a bad experience giving birth (several sweeps, 30-odd hours of labour, pph of 1500ml, episiotomy, 4 hour pushing stage, painful sex for months afterwards...) Want to think about DC2 this summer but really scared about giving birth again. One friend who had a similar experience pushed for an ELCS second time round and another friend went completely the other way and had a much easier quick natural birth. I really want the latter but think an ELCS would be more sensible.
What have others done? I did hypnobirthing, daily yoga etc the first time round and was really prepared for a calm easy birth but didn't go to plan!