Hi,
I'm hoping that there might be some midwives/Dr's reading this or some mums that have been through a similar experience that might be able to advise me.
DS1 is now a few months old. I had no choice but to have an elective c-section as he was transverse/unstable lie as I have a bicornate uterus. I was diagnosed with obstetric cholestasis at 39 weeks and was told that he had to be delivered ASAP to avoid serious risks. His position meant that c-section was the only option. I was, and still am, utterly gutted to not have experienced labour or birth at all and am desperate to try to have a more normal experience next time around. He was a big baby at 9lb 7oz and i carried to full term - I?m told both of these are unusual for a bircornate uterus. He never engaged, but was head down at all MW appointments. He flipped in the last week, he was even head down hours before the section, but turned back again - he had a lot of room in there!
Anyway, my questions are:
- Will having a bicornate uterus prevent me from having a VBAC? (as long as the next one stays head down!)
- My local hospital is very keen on c-sections (one the the highest rates in the country) any tips for fighting my corner for a more normal experience?
-What are the chances of the OC happening again? All the stats online differ massively.
I realise I?m being a bit previous with this, but finding out all the info I can about this has become a coping method to deal with all we went through and the disappointment. I felt a bit steam rollered into everything with DS1 as it all happened so fast. I need to feel more in control of my situation now. Thanks for reading x