DS2 was born on 6th January 2013 after a really lovely, straightforward VBAC. Thanks to everybody who has offered support and advice over the last few months when I was panicking and worrying about ending with an EMCS again. So, for anyone who's thinking about VBAC, here's my experience.
I had an EMCS 3 years ago with DS1 after a hard 5 day labour (3cm on the Wednesday, DS born the following Monday). I was very worried it was all going to end the same way again and that maybe I should just go for an ELCS this time so that there wouldn't be any trauma. But I was persuaded a VBAC was the way to go. I saw 2 consultants during the pregnancy and both assured me I was very low risk and that the VBAC would be best but to have sweeps at 40 and 41 weeks. Both of these sweeps failed and I got to the point where I demanded a date for the c section as I was getting very wound up with not knowing what was happening and the midwife who did thr 2nd sweep basically told me that it cwas very very unlikely to start naturally before 42 weeks.
However, 2 days later I started to get contractions and less than 24 hours later DS2 was born! There were a couple of iffy moments but the midwife dealt with them wonderfully. Dilation happened as it was meant to. I had to have my waters broken at 8cm and there was the plug and bloody show that hadn't turned up. There was also meconium in thr water but as The baby was being monitored anyway they knew he wasn't distressed at all, it just meant a bit longer in hospital after. The whole birth was done with TENS to 5cm then gas and air. I also came away with only a minor 1st degree tear and no stitches, but that's definitely down to the marvellous midwife we had and her talking me through every step of the way. We had skin to skin almost immediately and he had his first feed within the hour.
I was very sore but nothing as bad as with the EMCS and was at least out of bed and moving around almost immediately. I'm not saying up and about as that's taken at least a week! After monitoring for the meconium we were discharged the following day and home in time for lunch. Which was a result as the hospital food was foul.
So basically, I'd definitely recommend at least considering a VBAC as it can all be so different from the first time.