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If you had a fast second labour, how quick was your third?

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SledsImOn · 13/12/2012 17:02

I'm trying to gauge if it's true about third labours being a bit of a wild card - or if they are generally even quicker than the second.

My second took 3.5 hours from the first inkling. I'm now 36/7 weeks with my third and have apparently got an irritable uterus - so I was up last night having quite painful, but not-terribly-helpful contractions for a couple of hours.

The midwife I saw today for routine check said, don't come in unless you have regular pains for at least 2 hours.

I'm a bit confused, maybe she wasn't aware my last labour was so short, but anyway - is this one likely to be quicker? And when do I call - I don't want to wait two hours if the baby will be here in one! Xmas Smile

Thanks x

ps am booked for homebirth, other MW recommended it as hospital is a bit of a trek.

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javotte · 13/12/2012 20:17

n°3 was faster. MW told me off for coming to the hospital at the first twinge (the contractions were still 15mn apart when I got there). DD was born 1 hour later, 2 minutes after another MW told me I had "plenty of time".

TheSecondComing · 13/12/2012 21:08

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KentuckyFriedChildren · 13/12/2012 21:17

ds was 9 hours with drugs to slow it, dd1 was 6 hours, dd2 was also 6 hours but was contracting every min for 3 of those and getting nowhere until midwife examined me at 5.10am and literally felt me dilate from 4 to 10 in 30 seconds. she was born at 5.17 :o

WeAreSix · 13/12/2012 21:20

DD1 16 hours established labour, stupidly long latent phase

DD2 long latent phase again but established labour 1 hour, 6 minutes pushing :)

DD3 home birth; another long latent phase, established labour 2.5 hours.

DD4 8 hours start to finish including latent phase.

All very different experiences. If I had to do any again if would be number 2. By far the easiest, but she was also the smallest :)

KentuckyFriedChildren · 13/12/2012 21:27

oh yes those were from first sign to birth btw. so all pretty quick really

SledsImOn · 14/12/2012 13:44

Thankyou very much for your experiences. It sounds like it may or may not be quicker! It's interesting to read how different labours can be though - I'm hoping this one will be straightforward but you just never know, do you.

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megandraper · 14/12/2012 13:47

No. 3 was similar to no. 2, with a bit more pushing required.

No. 1 - 8.5 hours

No. 2 - 2.5 hours

No. 3 - 3 hours

SledsImOn · 14/12/2012 13:49

Oh wow. That sounds Ok - ds2 it took half an hour to push as he was OP by that point, so MW said it might have been half the time if he'd been in a better position. Maybe that has an effect?

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Dillydollydaydream · 14/12/2012 14:00

2nd labour 2.5hrs
3rd about 1.5hrs.

elliejjtiny · 15/12/2012 01:15

DS1 - 4h 20m
DS2 - 1h 30m
DS3 - 2h 14m

That was established labour. Latent phase was long with all 3 but got shorter with each baby.

recall · 15/12/2012 01:42

elliejjtiny Shock did you have to go and look at odour medical notes to get those times ? Or did you have them in your head ? its all such a blur for me, I can't even get an answer together for sledsimon Grin

recall · 15/12/2012 01:42

*your

elliejjtiny · 15/12/2012 17:13

recall I have the times in my head along with a whole load of other useless information Grin. I can remember my old postcode from 8 years ago but I have no idea what I ordered for the DC's school dinners next week.

WeAreSix · 15/12/2012 20:38

elliejjtiny I'm like that - I can remember my dads car registration from 25 years ago, but not if I've remembered to send in permission slips etc to school :)

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