Jules
Can you call PALS - Patient Adivsory Liason Service - when I have called them they are pretty good - explain your circs - in loads of pain - no one listening or and much more importantly - INVESTIGATING the reasons behind your pain.
They are not " ruling " things out by doing investigations.
I am amazed you cant get back to see the consultant who did the op.
When I was discharged a lady told me I could go back and refer myself up to 6 weeks after the op.
I lost the paper or number she gave me - as I was swamped with leafletts and papers from bounty - health visitor - hospital etc...
So I called the ward - and spoke to a lady who was ADAMANT i needed to see my GP.
She wasnt listenoing to me - I was saying to her " OK - so does the discharge lady not know her job then!! why would she tell me i can refer myself if i cant"
We had a long " conversation" and I had to ask several times - in the nicest possible way to speak to someone else.
THREE people later I finally got to someone who refered me to the day assesment unit and an appointment was made THE NEXT DAY to see the person who actually did my op.
I dont know who at the hospital you are speaking too - but alot of the time - the left hand doesnt know what the right is doing.
Do you know who did you op, are you able to call them or thier secretary directly?
My GP was beyond useless over my pain and said the same thing " your lukcy to be up right - most ladies cant even stand up straight after c section"
In the hospital they said the same thing - "what do you expect".
No one was listening to me - that i did something and was in alot of pain - ie it wasnt the operation - i did something soon after - and it was that - that was causing the pain!! I Could have ripped open all my internal stiches - they couldnt care less!! They just kept saying the same thing.
This scares me.
They said the same thing to a friend who had retained placenta - heomraaged then ended up with blood posining and on a life support machine with all her organs shutting down.
My dad had heart surgery - had to be re opened - and back on the ward he complained of pain - again they all said to him - " what do you expect you have had major surgery and been opened up twice."
He had to keep on and on and on - they eventually said " ok - we will take you down to the x ray then"
he said " No you wont - I cant even do that I am in too much pain"
EVENTUALLY they scanned him or x rayed him and found out his sternam wasnt sewn up properly!!! It was flapping agaisnt his organs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He said you have to rememeber people who work in hospitals hear people moan about pain.
You know your body - you know something isnt right you must act swiflty.