Hi all :)
I posted yesterday and the lovely badgerina gave me some information but I didn't want to derail the other poster's thread. I am 41+1 and had a sweep yesterday to no avail - cervix is too high up right now.
I had booked a homebirth with our own pool. When the MW couldn't complete the sweep, she immediately assumed an induction at 42 weeks, with no explanation of what an induction entailed, what pain relief would be available to me, or asking or discussing with me what I wanted other than telling me it would be straight to the labour ward - no HB, no pool, no mlu. I managed to get another sweep booked for Friday, with an appointment to be be made with the head of MW care if that didn't work.
I am trying to shrug off this concept of what they will allow. They talk very much in terms of what they will allow, and the way they are handling this is really upsetting me - not the prospect of an induction itself, if that's right in the end then so be it. But their complete lack of information and shutting down all my options is making me so upset.
So - in your experiences, opinions - since I am low risk, good blood pressure, strong baby heartbeat, excellent movement, a low risk pregnancy so far:
Would it be an option to go home after they insert a pessary - if indeed that's what they do? Not that I know because they haven't told me!
Would this be a really stupid thing to do, or would it be an option for us - to see if I start contracting on my own, get in my own pool, if the induction is successful?
I have to add - I am not very good - or I suppose more accurate - not very confident at enforcing my choices. I can be assertive but I struggle with getting to that point in the sense that I can lack confidence I am doing the right thing. I feel my care is being very pushy and shutting me down - getting information is like pulling teeth. Any help, advice, sharing of experience would really help me come to some kind of place of resolution for my situation.