re cord prolapse, i was induced with all 5 of mine for going more than 2 wks posts, dates, i opted for exepectant management for no2 and no3 but once i got to 18days overdue i was fed up. anyway i am allergic to the prostin gel pessary so they have to induce me my breaking my waters not ONCE did they tell me cord prolapse was a risk! it was only because i had done my own research that i questioned them on it!
as it was breaking my waters worked fine and i have had 5 normal 'easy' deliveries, my easiest being 10lb 13oz ds4 who i had in the birth pool. rather ironically when preg wtih no 5, i had a consultant who when he met me (had an app as i had post natal psychosis after no4) insisted that as i am small 5 2 and petite with size 4 feet that i should have a section as eh thought my baby was likely to be 9lb and i wouldt NOT be able to deliver a baby that big vaginally! had he read my notes he would have seen that ALL four of my previous babies were 9lb+ and all had been delivered vaginally, easily infact! when i pointed this out to him, he told me i had 'just got lucky' and he didnt think i would be lukcy the next time! i did then tell him my app with him was becaause of my pnp and regarding any extra care i would need after the birth. i also told himt he baby wasnt that big (having carried 4 big babies i KNEW my 5th wasnt as big) he basically laughed at me and was annoyed that i didnt agree to be booked in for a c section.
my 5th baby was also induced by breaking my waters, despite being back to back my labour was 3hrs, with 3 pushes and she was a teeny 8lb! i had numersou drs in each labour try and get me on my back on the bed, for NO reason, thankfully my partner and midwife were supportive and politely told them to get lost! but you shouldnt have to fight to labour int he position you want!
oh and with dd i was taking citalopram in preg, 10mg as a just in case after my previous pnp, anyway when it came to discharging me after the birth the dr was HORRIFIED i had taken it during preg, despite the fact the midwife, a previous consultant and a nicu team in conjunction with my mental health team ahd decided it was fine. he was also insistent i couldnt bfeed whilst taking citalopram and wouldnt discharge me as i was bfeeding, he wanted to call social services as i said i would leave. (ironic as my dp works for ss!) the midwives were all aghast at this dr and int he end a dr from the nicu unit came and discharged us, she also told me to complain to pals about the dr that had been such an idiot! the thing is i was clued up and knew i was fine, many mothers would have taken his word as gospel!
i have to say all the midwives i have had have on the whole been great, apart from when i was having ds1 and i asked about pros/cons re section (as i was offered a section for spd) the midwifes answere 'well i would rather have a cut in my tummy than down there' helpful...NOT!