I had severe SPD with my first pregnancy from early on (crutches/ wheelchair/ etc etc) and consequently had an elective c-section at 39 weeks.
I'm now 19 wks pregnant again and meet with consultant next week and I need to make a decision about what I want to do this time.
I like the idea of trying to do it myself, depending on how bad the SPD gets (crutches at the moment), but as my dd was a 9lb-er the weight of her made the last few weeks unbearable last time I wondered about being induced at 39 wks rather than having another section.
I'm also a bit concerned about ending up having an emergency caesarean as my elective had complications due to undiagnosed placenta praevia and I had to have a blood transfusion.
I don't even know if hospitals generally allow induction early (although it was an option for me last time)
Also - anyone know if it's okay to use a birthing pool during labour if induced/ and if have had a previous section? With the extent of my SPD the hospital birth plan for me would be an epidural as soon as I was admitted and a ventouse delivery - and I'll need an alternative plan to argue at my meeting next week.
My main reason for not wanting a section this time is seperation anxiety over the hospital stay- I don't want to be apart from my dd for a week, but I was unable to walk for 5 day after because the SPD got worse before it got better.
Did not mean to go on this long - sorry. Probably very garbled too -I'm in pain!
Any advice/ experiences would be really helpful...
thanks
babylily