I'll be having a 34-week scan in a few weeks, followed by a meeting with a consultant to determine the best option for the arrival of DC2.
DH and I suspect they will pretty much leave it up to me/us as to whether I want an ELCS or to try for a VBAC. I'm curious if anyone has been in a situation similar to mine and might be willing to share their experience.
In summary:
Even before TTC DC1, I knew my massive fibroids might be an issue. I have three significantly sized ones, the largest being 12cm. They're intramural, so didn't conflict with TTC but I did go into my first pg with the understanding that I would likely need a c-section. However, when the time came, I was encouraged to try for a regular delivery.
My waters broke on a Friday evening; twenty-four hours later I had barely dilated, so began induction. Four hours after that I was still barely dilated and was given (after about six tries) an epidural. Four hours later I was about 4cm dilated. From what I can make of my hospital notes and one of the doctors' drawings, the baby and the biggest fibroid were sort of level with each other. Baby may also have been back-to-back. In any case, she had hardly engaged at all and one of the doctors wrote in my notes: "vaginal delivery unlikely; probably needs cs". So about 36 hours after my waters broke, DD was delivered via EMCS. I lost 1.4L of blood (PPH is common with fibroids) and had to have a transfusion.
As we were leaving the theatre, one of the doctors said that if I had another baby, I would need another c-section. However, there is no reference to this advice in my hospital notes and neither DH nor I was clever enough to ask at the time why they thought this.
Early in pg2, I met with a consultant who seemed to think it unlikely that the fibroids caused the slow progress or the need for the CS. He said first babies often turn back-to-back and that it's less common in subsequent pregnancies. However, he did admit that he would need to review my notes from pg1 before making any decision or advising us on the best option for delivery of DC2. So we suspect that unless he sees something in the notes that I've been unable to decipher, he'll probably encourage me to try for a VBAC. Except I'm not sure I want to. I still have that "you'll need another CS" in my head, making me think there must have been a reason for the doctor saying that.
OTOH, I had complications after my last CS -- the wound reopened, I spent four miserable days over a weekend in our understaffed local maternity ward (though I delivered at UCLH) and couldn't exercise or do much physical activity for twelve weeks as a result. I sort of think it would be good to avoid voluntarily undergoing major surgery if I don't need it.
I hated the whole induction thing and have made it clear that I will not consent to that again. The consultant I spoke with a few months ago was fine with that and said I could either schedule an ELCS (probably able to go to my EDD even) or wait to go into spontaneous labour and if I don't progress, then have the section. But I have no idea how long they would expect me to wait before deciding I'm not progressing. This is something we'll discuss in our appointment in a few weeks, when we also intend to look closely with the consultant at the notes from pg1, but if anyone cares to share their experience/advice in the meantime, I would be very grateful.
Part of me (and DH's gut instinct on the subject) suspects that they may encourage me to go for a VBAC even if they think I'll eventually need a section. I sort of feel like they got my hopes up for a regular delivery last time when they may very well have suspected early on that I would eventually need a CS. And if that's the case, I'd rather just have had the section to begin with, rather than go through 36 hours of misery. And now, we also have DC1 to consider (who will look after her while we're in hospital, how long will I be away, what will my recovery time be, etc).
Hopefully, reviewing my pg1 notes and 34-week scan report with the consultant will clear things up and there will be an obvious best option, but I'm preparing for that not to be the case and for the decision to be in my hands. I just wish I knew what I should do. I guess I'm leaning towards an ELCS, but part of me feels like if there is a chance for successful VBAC I should take it.
A very long post, I realise, so thank you in advance to anyone who takes the time to read and comment.