Golden egg.
I am currently going through what you are just a few weeks ahead at 40+3.
I was diagnosed with high bp in my last pregnancy which ended in mc. I was kept on tabs as we were going to ttc again.
Fast forward through to this pregnancy and my bp was on the high side even under meds 158/93 at its peak. I was obviously anxious about another mc, going through a lot of stress with the business and to top it off being scare mongered at each app regarding pre eclampsia and risks etc.
However i have stuck to my guns throughout, aslong as my bp is controlled and baby is fine and there are absolutely no further issues however small i will not be induced and ideally i would like a home waterbirth but failing that the option of the maternity led birthing unit.
My midwife was fully supportive, i have done a tonne of research and made an informed decision about whats right for my baby and me. My midwife booked me an app with the senior midwife to discuss options, again she was fully supportive and we agreed on a waterbirth in the MLBU. This was discussed at 37 weeks and since that date my bp has condistently been 110/75. Its taken the pressure off completely and ive relaxed.
I think as long as you are open to all eventualities there is nothing wrong with preparing for YOUR ideal birth and not being scare mongered by health professionals.
This is my 3rd pregnancy(and last)
Are u on medication at the moment?