I had a very bad experience at Kingston 18 months ago. The staff were busy but that's no excuse for negligence. I was refused gas & air in the new Malden suite at 4cm with back to back labour as it was deemed too early. My midwife then went on her lunch break & despite my constantly pushing the help button & saying I couldnt stop pushing I was left alone to push for 30 mins as other midwives who answered the call button stated I had to wait for my midwife as they were too busy. I pushed for 3 hrs in total before having to have an emergency venteuse with no pain relief as no time. Thankfully baby was gorgeous & fine. My midwife signed off shift 15 mins after my baby was born & didn't bother to sign anyone else on. I lay in a pool of blood for 5 hrs alone with my husband & baby feeling progressively worse & worse whilst my husbands pleas to get a midwife/dr to check me out were ignored as they were too busy with other patients. Eventually when I lost my sight, reflexes & could barely speak anymore finally a dr took notice of my now terrified husband who was chasing drs around insisting they come help. Turns out I had lost 5 litres of blood with an internal haemmorage. I had up have 4 hrs of surgery without general anaesthetic as no time to give me one.
All is well now & I recovered fully, however I was stunned at how close things went to getting life threatening. I was invited in for a meeting with the head of hospital & head of midwifery to discuss what went wrong. They were very apologetic, said this had never happened before, was awful & that training had been set up for all staff to ensure this never happened again. I accepted this & went home to look after my new baby. A month later I was horrified to meet another shell shocked mum in a playgroup who had exactly the same experience a few weeks after me.
Im sorry this post is so long & I hope it doesn't scare anyone. I feel the need to share it as I wish I'd known in advance how little I should trust the midwives as we were running under the assumption they knew best. Next time I'll know to kick & scream & refuse to take no for an answer when I know something is wrong.
We are currently 13 wks pregnant with my second child so I am going through the same fears as other posters here about Kingston. I'd love to try a home birth this time but the fact is that if I had a haemmorage like this again then to be honest I probably wouldn't survive unless I was at a hospital. Although it can be argued that I probably wouldn't have had the bleed in the first place if I hadn't pushed for way too long.
I'm thinking my compromise may be to use Kingston, but take a private midwife or doula with me to ensure I have someone there other than my husband & I who is really looking out for me.
Good luck to all & I really hope this doesn't scare anyone. Just to confirm recent experiences in Kingston, my Nct class had 7 mums & we had the following:
My experience above
1 emergency venteuse
3 emergency c sections
1 natural labour
1 labour with epidural & episiotomy
Hope this helps. Don't hate me for posting this!