Only 9 weeks now, but considering whether I would ask for an ELCS or go for the vbac.
DS was born 2.5 years ago via EMCS. No one specific reason why things went that way, but lots of little things - 13 days overdue, labour had been going on for 3 days off and on, I was shattered and hadn't slept during that time, had done lots of puking so no energy, he was back to back and in a funny position which the doctor said would need forceps birth in theatre which might end up in c-section or we could just go with the c-section there and then. Decided to cut to the chase and went for the c-section. I did get to 9.5 cm dialated on a syntocin drip, but they said the way his head was, it was stopping complete dialation or something like that.
So now I am considering what to to do this time round. First appt with the m/w next week where no doubt we'll discuss this. I am not phased by another c-section as i've been throught it before, it's more the recovery issues wtih a toddler on my hands as well as a newborn. Plus (and I know this sounds silly), I feel disappointed in myself and feel like I have something to prove as a woman!
But from what I read here and talking to people, I get the impression those who are successful with Vbacs are people who had ELCS for things like breech babies i.e. it's not an issue with going into labour and birthing the baby iyswim?
Has anyone had a similar difficult first labour and then had a good vbac? If I do go for the vbac btw, I won't be allowing any forceps within a mile of me!