I was hoping for a natural birth the first time round but due to the fact that I wasn't dilating, even after induction, and I was a week and half over due I ended up having a caesar, it turned out that, according to my Gynie, the umbilical chord was wrapped around my sons neck twice hence the reason he wasn't engaging.
I would like to go for a natural birth the second time round 18/19 months later, however, My gynie has told me that it is recommended to have an elective caesar as I had a Caesarian 18 months prior, to avoid the existing wound from possibly tearing during strong contractions.
Has anyone heard or experienced this? Is this a wise move or should I question it further? As I really would like to wait until the little one is ready to come out/ go natural.... At the end of the day, I want to do what's best for my baby and/or in this case me....
Plus my gynie has recommended an elective caesar 10 days before my due date for the same reason, that the contractions may rip my previous wound, this seems early to me or am I being paranoid/over concerned?
All opinions and constructive criticism welcome.
Thank you in advance for your advice/comments 