Ok so just to let you know how I got on, found the whole experience fantastic. Basically had the epidural before the induction so had to wait a while for the anaesthetist. I realised I would have been too exhausted to do it straight as had had about 4 hours sleep over 48 hours on antenatal ward.
It was wonderful to lie there feeling contractions while relaxed without too much pain plus knowing I could increase the epidural any time i wanted meant I kept the level really low.
Took 5 hours to get to fully dilated.
Again pushing was great- I enjoyed it! I was able to push with the contractions without getting lost in pain which is what happened in my iny natural birth. Meant I could push better and harder and wasn't tied up in pain. I controlled exactly what was happening. At one point I was laughing - with delight I think! Dd came out in about 4 pushes.
And afterwards instead of being traumatised by how painful it had been and getting flashbacks like I did w my normal birth, I focused on my baby.
So all in all the best decision. ESP for someone who needs to be in control like I do! I had no fear just got on with it.
I'm now lying in a post natal ward with my beautiful dd ( suffering from total urinary incontinence which is so bad I can't hold any wee at all - but that's sod all to do with the epidural!!! And will undoubtedly be another thread...
So glad I asked on here!