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Midwives don't believe I am having contractions....

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Elsathelion · 15/05/2012 16:41

I am having an induction due to crazy blood pressure issues. I was given the first lot of drugs (to "ripen" the cervix) today at 11 am; I am 39+5.

When I was examined, the midwife was surprised that my cervix was already quite soft and a tiny bit open (about enough for one finger to fit in it).

Since about midday, I have been having regular pains every few minutes. The pain is in my lower abdomen, lower back and down through my hips. The pain is very strong but I am not screaming and shouting because I am a hypnotherapist and have spent a lot of time preparing for birth. It is strong enough that I can't move or talk when the pain is at its peak.

Does this sound like contractions?

The MWs are driving me mad saying that it often takes two lots of the drugs to start labour and what I am feeling is probably just "niggles" as the cervix is ripening.

I am a bit worried they don't believe me because, due to my blood pressure, my LO should be monitored during contractions, at least at first, to check she is coping ... But they won't monitor for "niggles."

Argh!

Any advice / thoughts hugely welcome

Smile

xxx

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fuckityfuckfuckfuck · 16/05/2012 17:19

I was induced 6 weeks ago and went from 4cms to birth in 40 minutes Shock They too didn't believe I was in proper labour as I wasn't making enough fuss. If it';s uncomfortable, get the pessary taken out. Mine was bloody agony, worse than the contractions, and was hyperstimulating me. As soon as it was taken out, the contractions kept on but my fanjo no longer felt on fire...

ChocolateIsAFoodGroup · 16/05/2012 21:17

Yup, they didn't think much of me coming into the hospital when I was in labour with DC2 - didn't think I was 39 plus 4 either, as I was 'too small' ('are you sure'?). Luckily, fab midwife who seemed to have been around the block a few times checked me and I was almost 5 cm and fully effaced Grin Got into a nice l and d room pronto. Just cos I wasn't screaming.

Maybe practice screaming? Or take your clothes off? (Often convinces them you're about to lose it....) Sorry, probably not helpful Grin

We all believe you, though! And GOOD LUCK!

StarlightMcKenzie · 16/05/2012 22:46

I don't suppose it helps that I refuse examinations...........

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