having been inspected by the midwife today, I'm not a big wuss like i thought as apparently I'm 'massively swollen' yay!
had DS2 yesterday, labour was fine but had to get episiotomy/forceps at end due to concerns about DS heart rate etc.
she is arranging painkillers for me but wouldn't mind any tips for looking after the area and reducing swelling.
thanks in advance
cheers.