Hi Katie, I can't help you specifically with the questions that you have asked as I have no experience of C&W. I am though, booked in for an ELCS on the same day as you at Birmingham Women's Hospital! I thought maybe what I can share might help you out, even if only a little bit.
I'm very excited, but am absolutely bricking it at the same time. My ELCS is beig put down as 'Maternal Request' (unlike yours), but that statement doesn't adequately reflect my reasons for making the request. I developed a problem with my back with DD1's delivery in 2009, which I'm keen to avoid via a repeat labour and delivery.
Anyhow, the way that BWH do it is that I will go in for my Pre-op the day before the birth (18th). I have already spoken with the OB (from my 36 week appointment) who answered some of my questions, but I'll get to speak with the anaesthetist on pre-op day and direct other questions to him/her. I'll have a blood sample taken to check iron-count as well as blood type in case blood products are needed on the day. All sounds frightening, but anaemia can develop following VB, too, as well as heavy blood-loss. Slightly more chance of bleeding post-CS, but lower statistical chance of early PPH.
Sorry, can't help you about the anti-sickness pills. I know that I will be given Ranitadine (antacid) to take the night before and on the morning ofthe birth.
I don't know why you'd have to call ahead on birth-day. I'm not sure if I'll have to. Maybe this is something I'll be informed about on Pre-op day?
ELCS timing sounds the same as at BWH. Might get bumped and the birth happen later than 1 in the afternoon if EMCS come in. I've been told that there is the slight chance that they get so busy that the electives are rescheduled to another day, but this doesn't happen much.
I'm not in the same situation as you in the sense that my baby turning will not influence the CS happening or not. I would HATE to be refused on the day, though. You do have to get your head around what's going to happen; baby turning and you being sent home means that you have to mentally prepare for VB then. I'd speak with someone in the know at the hospital before next Thursday. If this is C&W's procedure, however, Terry might not e a lot that you can do, short of bailing out and demanding to go to a hospital that does support Maternal Request.
I think that you will have to fast until after the op. There is the chance that you'll need a general anaesthetic and this carries the risk of you 'inhaling' the contents of your stomach. Don't know how this works, I just know that this is te reason why it's better for you to have an empty stomach on birth-day!
I don't think that I can help you with your other questions. Some of them are ones that I've saved for the Pre-op appointment a my OB tols me that photography, music, etc, was for the discretion of theatre staff. Again, might be worth contacting C&W. FWIW, I found an 'Elect Planned Cesarean' leaflet on BWH's website - if you haven't done so already, might be worth checking if C&W do the same?
I totally sympathise with you - this is not the time to be stressed and chasing for answers. I hope that you do acquire all the info that you need, an good luck with the birth :) Would love to know how it all turns out x