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Second labour birth story

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digitalgirl · 10/04/2012 20:13

My first labour fairly textbook - spontaneous waters breaking, mild contractions building up to gradually, peaking at the final stages of transition, then 2.5hr second stage, baby born 15 hours after waters breaking followed by a managed 3rd stage where I had to push placenta out anyway.

Yesterday I had my second baby - was told it would be bigger but theoretically the birth would be easier and faster.

Birth story:
Started very mild contractions at 3:30pm on Easter Sunday. Thought it was bh from eating too much lunch Grin. Realised they were getting closer together in the evening. Went to bed and they got stronger. Called the birth centre because thought I might like some pain relief soon.
Got there and cx tailed off, but got stronger on the birthing ball so stayed on the till they were 3-4 minutes apart. Had a ve before getting in the pool and found I was 6cm. Got in the pool for more pain relief and cx slowed right down. Had a ve 4 hours later at mw shift changeover and hadn't made any progress with dilation. MW suggested breaking waters if I wanted to speed things up - was also told if I didn't make much more progress in the next hour I'd be sent up to the clu labour ward where they would probably break my waters anyway.
So agreed to breaking waters - cue full on contractions which were like transition - except they went on forever! Asked for an epidural which I knew meant transferring to clu and being constantly monitored but this seemed a small price to pay for relief.
Epidural took an hour to put in - with all the prep. Typical grumpy anaesthetist! And then the bloody thing didn't numb me like I was hoping it would! Took the edge off though and I was feeling the urge to push although I wanted to wait until the epi took full effect so I held off pushing and kept asking for top ups. Finally mw examined me and realised I was fully dilated and got me to start pushing even though I didn't want to. Eventually I agreed and it must have been 5 or 6 contractions and he was out with barely a graze!
Didn't get my physiological 3rd stage because he was considered a big baby (8lbs 12oz). So they injected me - again it didn't work and I had to push the placenta out. Giant placenta delivered - followed by a pph which turned 'code red'. Had 15 people in the room including a surgeon with his hand up my fanjo pulling out retained membranes while simultaneously pummelling my stomach to contract my uterus as quickly as possible. Lost 2 litres of blood, requiring a transfusion but actually feel fine. Thank goodness for the obstetrics emergency team! Feel better than I did after my first delivery, although just as traumatised!

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TaylorSwift13Fan · 10/04/2012 22:17

With my first I was induced because I had a rash they were worried about. But with my second, my waters broke at 7PM and then we went into hospital at 7.30PM and Gas and Air made me feel sick so I finished that after 20 minutes. I gave birth 90% drug free (the 20 minutes of gas and air made me put 90%) and at 1.37AM after 30 minutes of pushing my baby Lily was born :) She is now 8 months old

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Flisspaps · 11/04/2012 17:01

digitalgirl Well done you my lovely for going through all that!

It does sound traumatic, and I hope that you recover from it quickly - emotionally as well as physically. If you feel that you need to see your notes or have a debrief in the future then take it because it's OK to need to get your head around a difficult birth - and if you don't need to then that's OK too :)

ohwhatever · 11/04/2012 18:43

Wow, not surprised you feel traumatised. Massive congratulations and hope you are enjoying new baby and getting your head round the birth.

I've never heard that managed 3rd stage recommended for big babies btw - does anyone know the rationale behind that?

ninja · 11/04/2012 19:03

Congratulations - I'm glad that you're feeling OK now, sounds a little scary at the end.

Flisspaps · 11/04/2012 19:08

ohwhatever I'm glad it's not just me - I'd not heard that either. I'm predicted Hmm a 9-10lber myself this time and am planning a physiological third stage, the MWs are aware of this and haven't said anything about the baby being big contraindicating this!

Pitmountainpony · 11/04/2012 19:38

Digital...sounds hairy but at least it is over. How scary for you. A friend reported that birthing her placenta was more painful than the baby.......glad all is okay. Thank goodness we have access to blood transfusions through our medical systems, whatever flaws we see in them
Congrats on you beautiful baby.

ilovedjasondonovan · 11/04/2012 19:42

I had a nearly 9lb one 2nd time around. No managed third stage for me because she was surprise home birth. Thought I needed a poo and out popped a baby. Followed a few mins later by a large plop. In shock I didn't realise that was the placenta going down the toilet. Nice. Felt a bit sorry for the paramedic who had to fish it out into a bucket for examination.

FrozenNorthPole · 11/04/2012 20:31

Congratulations and well done! x

OddBoots · 11/04/2012 20:37

Congratulations! :)

Briefly, first, induced at 38w for raised BP, 54 hours of labour pains (but 'only' 40 hours of active labour, epi for the last 20h, pushed him out myself but with 2nd degree tear. All well in the end.

Second, induced with gel at 41+3 for post-dates, 15mins after gel I feel 'pushy', raced to labour ward, born 19mins after gel. All well in the end.

ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 11/04/2012 20:47

Many many congratulations Digi. It has been a long road for you and I am chuffed to bits that your ds2 is here Smile. Does ds have a name?

ohwhatever & flisspaps - I have never heard of a big baby being a reason for a managed 3rd stage. I have had 3 large babies, 2 of which were vaginal births with natural 3rd stages, and I have never come across this.

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