Had a great labour with my DS, woke at 5 with first contraction, in established labour by about 7am, born at 1pm after 1 1/2 hours of pushing BUT he came out with his elbow next to his head which had caused a lot of internal tearing, and I had a PPH requiring blood transfusion. They didn't know he was coming out this way, just thought I was being feeble about pushing, but it's a wonder the damage wasn't worse considering the elbow plus head on 98th centile!!
Had booking in appt with midwife and she told me i had an increased risk of having a another PPH and might well tear badly again. Could i be so unlucky as to have another baby present like this? If not, is there any reason i should tear badly again? If anyone has any stories about straightforward second births after these sorts of complications in the first birth I would be really happy!