I wanted some advice regarding a previous post partum heamorrage I had with my last child three years ago. I had a pretty straightforward homebirth, however 12hrs later I got up to use the toilet and suffered a PPH. My blood loss was classified on my notes as 2 litres. When I was in hospital getting a blood transfusion quite few Dr's and nurses commented that I would never be able to have another HB.
We are now wanting to ttc number 3 and I am pretty much OK with going into hospital to give birth as I know my DH wouldn't feel comfortable with a HB as he was very traumatised after seeing what happened to me last time (I can't remember a thing). My biggest worry is that I will be immediately classified as high risk and bullied talked into having a highly managed birth.
I would like to labour naturally in water possibly under caseload midwifery. Will this be impossible, or will I have a fight on my hands to achieve what want? Am I being irresponsible to want this and should I just go with what they tell me? Has anyone had a PPH and then gone on to have no complications the next time?