Hi Northern,
How overdue are you? And how overdue will you be when you get to the proposed induction date? Just wondering because you said you were a couple of days overdue now and inductio booked for Tuesday, so does that mean you will only be 7 or 8 days overdue by then? Just asking because that seems a bit soon to be inducing someone (in my area you are offered induction from 12 days overdue), but don't know if different areas have different times.....
I was induced at 40+14 (much to my disappointment) and had actually gone in at 40+13 to be induced but changed my mind. Like you, I wanted everything natural, in a midwife-led unit (which you are only allowed to go into if you are less than 14 days overdue, and can't go there if you have been induced in hospital) Previously, I had had 4 sweeps which resulted in a bit of spotting and cramping, but nothing else. It only took one gel to get things going for me (but I question whether I would have gone into labour naturally anyway being so overdue). I got the gel at 11am, began feeling tightenings at around 5pm, and by 10pm was contracting quite hard. DD was born at 10am the following morning (23 hours after receiving the gel) - 15 days overdue!
What I wanted to say was that you shouldn't be forced into anything. Remember that once you have the first lot of gel, you are stuck in hospital until you give birth. For me, this was quite scary because I had always wanted to go into labour at home, hospital seemed a bit clinical. I was also on a shared ward, so was contracting whilst the others were asleep and the horrible midwife sent my DH home because there were no private rooms available and it was after visiting hours! I am sure every hospital is different though, and maybe they were just really busy when I was there. Maybe these are things you could check with your community midwife to see if she knows what it will be like? So it was the hospital conditions more than induction itself that I didn't like.
I was told that if the gel was enough to get things going and everything with me and DD was fine, I would be allowed to use the pool if one was available (which there wasn't). So you would at least be able to stick with that part of your birth plan if you decide to go down the induction route.
5 days is a really long time!! So please don't be disheartened. Anything can happen, at any time! If your midwife offers you more sweeps, give them a try! Long walks are good (I always had to take DH with me though, as had visions of my waters breaking 2 miles from home!), bouncing on an exercise ball, and..... cough .... sex (I know it's the last thing on your mind, but there really is evidence to suggest it can help...!) I think there is something in clary sage oil that can help too, but I would seek advice before trying that.
And remember - your body, your choice. You have to weigh up what best for you and baby, and go with what feels right. I talked induction over with DH and that helped me make my mind up as to what I wanted to do. He helped keeps things in perspective for me.
Wishing you the very best of luck when the time comes! Take this time to relax and enjoy your last couple of days before you become a mummy :)
xxxx