Hello, as it's mn, no such thing as tmi right? ;)
I had an elcs last Monday. The catheter was put in pre-spinal which was not pleasant - my husband said as soon as it went in I started to fill my yellow handbag.
I had been a bit bunged up on sat so had taken some laxatives Sunday but the poo did not come before the op.
Tuesday afternoon the catheter was removed but because I'd been on nil-by-mouth followed by limited fluids there wasn't really much to come out. I was vaguely aware of my bladder.
I came home on Thursday and was told to urinate regularly even if I didn't feel it because this was a repeat section the entire area was quite numb. I didn't quite make it to the toilet a few times, I didn't feel my bladder sitting down or lying, but as soon as I started walking to the toilet I started leaking. And every time I tried to step out of the shower I leaked... Eventually calling it a day and getting out and using babywipes to clean (again!) ;).
On Saturday I had my first poo - I'd eaten rye bread in hospital as it's good roughage. I didn't strain or force myself to go at all, I just waited until my body needed a poo. An impressive size - and let's leave it at that! ;)
Yesterday morning was the first time I felt I had 100% control of my bladder in that I sat on the loo and I chose when to empty it! So I hope for you it's very much a temporary thing, but just wanted to let you know that even for me with no prior birth trauma, it's been a week to get control.
Good luck! :)