Hello
Am also about 9 weeks away from a vbac!
Had an emcs due to fetal distress - his heart was repeatedly stopping - during an induction at 42 weeks. I hyperstimulated and was monitored continuously (I was contracting every minute for a minute from within minutes of the pessary being inserted). I hated the CFM, as was strapped to the bed unable to move even slightly. Was horrible.
My hospital's policy is to do continuous fetal monitoring as part of a vbac. I feel strongly that I don't want to do this as I really think I'll end up with another c-section that way. I'm willing to revise this should I need to (eg intermittent monitoring picks up irregular heartbeat or meconium in my waters) but in my experience CFM meant myself and my husband were left alone for ages at a time with a beeping machine despite hyperstimulating.
This time I've been able to book into the birth centre to try for the vbac - means midwife led care and no CFM but only one floor away from the labour ward should I need to be transferred.
To do this I've needed a meeting with my consultant (with the actual consultant, not just the usual registrar/SHO) and with the consultant midwife at the birth centre. Both very graphically talked through the risks of scar rupture. Means my notes are now full of lines like "flipfantasia and her partner are aware of the risks of severe injury or death to the baby". Which is
and scary but I'm grateful for, as I'm very much making this decision with my eyes open to the potential dangers. But I'm still refusing CFM as a standard...
Have also booked a doula to help support us both (particularly my husband, who found my last labour and birth utterly terrifying!).
Anyway, am sure there'll be ladies along with positve vbac stories with CFM, just wanted to share the steps I've taken in my pregnancy to try for a vbac.