I'm hoping to be induced next week and I'm after some advice on how much say I can have into how things will go when I talk to the consultant next week.
Basically DC2 was also induced with pessary + ARM which caused a very fast and intense labour without any pain relief whatsoever. Needless to say I'm hoping not to repeat the same birth this time round. I'm hoping for a calmer birth and that's why I'm keen on having an epidural very early on.
The consultant suggested a sweep the night before followed by ARM on induction day if I haven't gone already by then. No pessary as that would be too much stimulation. So I'm wondering:
- Can I refuse the sweep? I'd rather get to induction having had a decent night sleep rather than hours of painful false labour (which I've had for 4 weeks anyway without going into labour spontaneously). I know the point of the sweep is to give me one last chance not to be induced but I'd rather not have it because of what I just explained.
- Can they give me an epidural at the same time as ARM? There's not much chance there'll be time for one otherwise.
- Can they rupture the membranes if I'm not 2 cm dilated?
- Can I go straight to syntocin drip plus epidural instead of painful sweep + ARM?
I know I'm a coward but this is my last child and after two very traumatic VBs I'm keen on having a calmer, pain free experience that I can actually enjoy.
Any advice is greatly appreciated!