Thanks for the replies everyone! Really good to hear all views, how ever different they may be!
With DD (15mo) I had a speedy first labour, very intense. I had a PPH of 1000mls 2hrs after giving birth as the placenta was "ragged"... They thought some was left in me, but thankfully it wasn't. but where DD came fast, my body didn't have time to catch up and then delivering the placenta naturally was easy but the uterus wasn't contracting quick enough i think hence the bleeding - so i don't want this happening again, because other than that it was a great first labour. it just literally started so clearly and then progressed quickly, So I wonder if i'm even going to have time....?
I was hoping for a water birth with her but there was a lady in the pool, and i'd gone in and had DD and she was still 8cms! :s
I like the idea of the warm water too, but just wouldn't want to make me have a slower labour? even though SIL said maybe a little slower is what i need this time lol!