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full version. Please see below. Thanks so much! Hugely appreciated.
Short version
? I would like to use the pool if at all possible for labour and delivery.
? I would like encouragement to use different positions, particularly upright. If I become too tired to remain upright, I would like to be encouraged to labour and deliver on my side and to avoid labouring and delivering on my back.
? Please offer me gas and air.
? Please do not offer me an epidural ? I will ask if I want this. I would prefer to avoid pethadine.
? I would prefer intermittent monitoring (to enable me to use the pool and labour as actively as possible).
? I would prefer to tear than to have an episiotomy, unless the midwife considers that I am likely to tear particularly badly without an episiotomy. I do NOT want to be offered an episiotomy just to speed up delivery unless this is necessary for the baby?s safety.
? Please do not use Keillands forceps on me ? please proceed to a Caesarean instead should their use be indicated.
? In the event that the use of low forceps is required, if you are not 100% confident that they will succeed, please do not try them but please let me have a Caesarean instead.
? Immediate skin to skin please ? with my husband if not possible with me.
? Please offer me encouragement to breastfeed immediately. If for any reason I am unable to breastfeed immediately, I do NOT want the baby to be given a bottle. Please give him milk from a cup instead.
? If I require stitches, I would like them to be administered (with pain relief) by the most experienced person available.
? I am happy for my baby to be given vitamin K.
Long version
Where to give birth
I would like to labour at home for as long as possible then transfer to [ ] to labour and preferably deliver in the pool in the Birthing Centre.
Companions
I would like my husband to be with me during labour and delivery, including if I require an instrumental delivery or a caesarean section.
Special facilities
I would like to use the birthing pool if possible, for both labour and delivery.
I would like to use the birthing centre's pool, birthing ball, wall bars, bean bags etc as appears appropriate and as I wish during labour and delivery.
If at all possible, I would like a private room for after the birth. I do NOT wish to be on a ward unless absolutely unavoidable.
I would like the lighting to be kept low and for quiet, calm voices to be used in the delivery room.
Monitoring during labour
I would like intermittent monitoring (to enable me to use the pool and labour as actively as possible) unless the midwife has reasons to believe that continuous monitoring is necessary.
Keeping active during labour and positions for labour and birth
I wish to remain active in labour and to be encouraged to find positions which are comfortable and helpful for me.
I wish to remain in an upright position as much as possible.
I wish to labour and deliver in the pool if possible. An alternative which I would like (if I find I do not like the pool) is to use a birthing ball.
If I become too tired to remain upright, I would like to be encouraged to labour and deliver on my side and to avoid labouring and delivering on my back.
Skin-to-skin contact with my baby
Skin-to-skin contact immediately after the birth is very important to me.
I would like the baby to be delivered straight onto my tummy.
I wish the baby to be given to me without being cleaned. I wish to put the baby straight to the breast.
In the event that I am unable to hold the baby, I would like him to be given to my husband so that he can have skin-to-skin contact.
I would like my husband to be given the opportunity to cut the cord.
I would like the three of us to be left alone after the birth to bond, so far as is possible.
Midwives, nurses and doctors in training
I wish for my labour and birth to be as quiet and private as possible. I do not wish for anyone other than my husband and the midwife to be present unless a doctor's presence is needed. However, I am prepared for a student midwife to be present, although I would like to be able to ask her to leave if at any point I feel uncomfortable with her presence.
Other issues
Please do not use Keillands forceps on me ? please proceed to a Caesarean instead should their use be indicated.
In the event that the use of low forceps is required, if you are not 100% confident that they will succeed, please do not try them but please let me have a Caesarean instead.
Pain relief options
I would like to use TENS in the early stages of labour, and then to use gas and air and the pool. I would prefer to manage with just gas and air and the pool but am aware that I may wish for an epidural. I do not wish to be offered an epidural, however - if I want one, I will ask for one. I would like the option to remain upright during labour and to use the pool so would prefer to avoid an epidural.
I would prefer to avoid pethadine.
I would like to be encouraged to move around and try different positions in labour. I would like this encouragement to come from both midwives and my husband, who has attended Active Birth classes with me. I would like my husband to remind me of the positions practiced in those classes, and to use the massage techniques learnt in those classes.
Having an episiotomy
I would prefer to tear than to have an episiotomy, unless the midwife considers that I am likely to tear particularly badly without an episiotomy.
I do not want to be offered an episiotomy unless the midwife thinks it is necessary for the baby's safety.
I do NOT want to be offered an episiotomy just to speed up delivery.
After the birth
I would like the syntometrine or syntocinon injection to avoid the risk of heavy bleeding.
If I require stitches, I would like to have local anaesthetic and gas and air.
If I require stitches, I would like them to be administered by the most experienced person available.
In the event that I need to be taken to theatre after delivery, and it is not possible for the baby to come with me, I would like my husband to stay with the baby and not go with me.
We would like a private room after the birth if at all possible (and are happy to pay for that).
Feeding my baby
I would like the baby to be encouraged to breastfeed immediately.
I plan to breastfeed exclusively and would like any help that can be offered to enable me to succeed in this.
If for any reason I am unable to breastfeed immediately, I do NOT want the baby to be given a bottle. Please give him milk from a cup instead.
Vitamin K for my baby
I am happy for my baby to be given vitamin K.