I kno this is going to come across wrong, but does anyone feel that the day they had there baby was the worst of their life? Due to the hospitals negligence I was on my own for most of it, coz they said they forgot to call my husband to tell him to come in (it was 2am) so I thought they had called him and was waiting for him in the labour suit (in agony) and then when he did arrive, they wouldn't let him in until visiting hours (11am.) by the time they decided to do a emergency c-section at 8pm, I had been fully dilated for 4 hours. They took me into surgery, and told my husband to wait outside till someone came to get him. While he was waiting they tried to give me a c-section without any anaesthetic, coz they thought I had already had it. I was screaming that I hadn't and my midwife had to literally throw herself over me till the dr noticed I was moving my legs quite normally. They knocked me out with gas anyway, all the while my husband is waiting outside with no idea what's going on, until a baby is taken past him, knowing I'm the only one in there, he asks if it's his, they tell him it's confidential. And take they baby away, threaten him with security if he doesn't leave the hospital. I wake up alone in a room, no idea what's happened. About 20 mins later someone walks in and says oh! I think ur baby is in scbu and we asked ur husband to leave and we think u have an infection. WTF??? I still have nightmares about it 9 months later. I will never have another child. Rant over. Does anyone else hurt when they think about the birth of ur child? they said they would try to get me a councillor but the wait is 2 years, meanwhile i now have vaginismus, and i just dont kno what to do.