Having a bit of a dilemma weighing up the options of induction versus going over 42 weeks.
I am 41 +3 today, have had a sweep on Tues (41w) and yesterday (41+2)...sweep on Tues produced some brown blood, yesterday nothing. Dilated 1cm, cervix apparently a bit softer yesterday, but does not look promising.
Getting regular BH and they have gone up a tiny notch in terms of feeling them but only very slightly. Have been having regular BH for a LONG time so don't think they are very significant.
This is DC2, first pregnancy I had pregnancy induced hypertension and was induced at 39 weeks due to growth concerns (which were pretty much unfounded as she came out 71b 8oz but we followed medical advice at the time). Awful induction process over three days, pessary, then progressed onto drip, got to 5 cms and my body just started to push and all out of sync so had epidural then fairly straightforward vaginal birth with no further intervention (thankfully).
So being overdue is very unchartered territory for. BP has been fine but is now creeping up I think mainly due to the anxiety of everything. Monitoring BP at home, have been "released" from consultant care to community midwife team with plan to go to home from home unit. NEVER thought I would get to this stage but am now having to make some serious decisions about where to go from here.
I will have another sweep tomorrow (not hopeful) and then we have to make some decisions....am quite anxious and confused.
Preference would be to go to home from home unit but have no major objections to going onto labour ward, as mentioned previously my induction was handled badly last time but the actual birth experience was fine. Feel like we would be much more assertive this time, first birth did not feel very empowered or informed - ward very busy, some staff great, some dreadful.
My biggest fear is having the drip again, I think if I got to that stage I would opt for having the epidural put in at the same time as the confusion/out of sync experience was awful. My body basically thought it was time to push even though I was only 5cm dialated, I became quite disorientated and confused. I do not want to experience that again!
I don't have any strong views regarding going 42 weeks +. I realise that the risks of stillbirth increases (very slightly) and that there are concerns about the placenta. The problem is it is very difficult to get any concise information about what the risks are, as it seems to be very unchartered territory after 42 weeks and the NHS policy as I understand it is to offer induction. I realise you can refuse inducton but then it feels like I am making a huge decision when I don't feel fully informed. I understand I can go for increased monitoring after 42 weeks but going over 42 weeks means I have to go onto labour ward (if induced) and can only go onto home from home if pessary 1 works ASAP.
Sorry if this is very wishy washy but I don't feel STRONGLY about which way to go. I have had no complications in pregnancy, but am getting very impatient and quite anxious now.
I am thinking at the moment, have another sweep tomorrow, then look to induce Sun/Mon....then I can begin (if there is a bed) at the home from home unit and if need be progress to labour ward.
If I leave it until next Tuesday 42 weeks, then I go straight to labour ward.
Not sure if I am brave enough to refuse induction after 42 weeks as it feels like a huge decision I don't know enough about.
At the same time I am petrified that the pessaries won't work and I will have to go onto the drip and then it feels very managed from there on.
Anyone have any similar experience and care to share some (hopefully) positive experiences with me. Sods law means I will have the bloody drip which is worst case scenario for me, but not sure I feel I know enough to refuse induction.
Any advice or insight much appreciated. Sorry for the epic post!