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It's started, waters went last night!!!

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chimichanga1976 · 07/11/2011 03:54

Yeah, hence the time of this post! She's wriggling around like a good'un! Had to get up as can't sleep and got hungry, as usual, so I'm chowing down on me wheatabix. Timed a couple of contractions, 3mins long and 30mins apart thus far. The discomfort is mostly localised to lower back at the mo. God, she won't stop wriggling......

I get worried she's changed position or is distressed, waters were clear, however, so far so good. Will ring MW 1st thing. Just using a hot water bottle to back and reg paracetamol at mo. Will try and sleep but think it's futile while she's so mobile. Pool is up but empty currently. Don't think husband's going to work tomorrow!

Daft question alert; I've got a TENS machine with pool and not used one before. Do you stick it on your back? Thinking it would be dangerous to attach to bump?!

Any final words of wisdom from those that've been there would be very much appreciated. I'm sure I'll get back and give you an update tho. Could really do with some sleep before the real work begins : (..............

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effingwotnots · 07/11/2011 03:56

Oooh good luck! X

Katiebeau · 07/11/2011 04:29

Good luck and Tens only for back. You should have instructions on pad placement in the pack. Let us know how it goes!!

catgirl1976 · 07/11/2011 08:06

good luck xx let us know how it goes!

chimichanga1976 · 07/11/2011 10:51

Thanks and will do! Managed 5hrs sleep in end which is a miracle. Guess there's a long way to go, however. Contractions def more bearable if not lying down. Will keep mobile and use my inflatable ball I think......x

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GirlWithTheMouseyHair · 07/11/2011 22:07

eeeeeeeeeeeeeeee how's it going???

chimichanga1976 · 08/11/2011 12:32

OK I'm really pissed off now. Spoke to MW yesterday morn to let her know it had started but she said I needed to go to hospital so they could confirm my waters had actually broken as my contractions weren't frequent enough for me to be in established labour. Told me bout the risk of infection once waters go etc. So I go in and typically my bp was high and remained high as I lay for an hour before she did a speculum exam ( yes they had broken, wasn't dilated ), monitored baby ( no probs ), tested urine ( normal ) but due to high bp I was admitted.

So I've spent the night in hospital, they gave me a dose of labetamol for bp, which brought it down last night, took bloods ( all fine ), lots of urine testing, monitoring of baby and my contractions actually have stopped as of yesterday lunchtime. Get the odd few during night but not regular like they were initially, so not progressing at all.

Due to the fact waters broke Sun eve and high bp ( which went up again this morn! ) they want me to be induced this eve. Infact I discharged myself against advice this morn, having spoken to consultant, reg, with the understanding that I come back in. They wanted to keep me in for monitoring but at the mo it really is just bp that is abnormal, no signs of pre-eclampsia, infection etc. So I've got my little temp dot thingies to keep eye on temp and they gave me script for another lot of labetalol and I have to ring them at 6pm to see if they can accommodate me later.

Feel sooo disapointed as I sit here looking at my lovely, bone dry pool, the rearranged furniture, flat all ready for home birth I had planned. And all because my bloody waters had to go early with no progression and my bp misbehaving. I can't even have water birth at hospital due to bp. So everything that I've tried my damndest to avoid happening is happening now. The whole medical birth with all interventions.

I have to have a pessary 1st, apparently, to get cervix ready then the drip later. Of course there's the chance it may not work 1st time. So on the way home I've bought a bp machine from Boots so I can monitor it, some Clary Sage oil, as recommended by MW even tho it says to avoid in pregnancy (?!) and lots of fresh pineapple ( mw again ). They didn't sell rasberry leaf tea.

Main thing is baby fine, very mobile as usual, and I know that a safe outcome for us both is the important thing in all this. Just feeling really down and sorry for myself at minute. Had a cry in hospital and just feel like crying somemore.

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RegLlamaOfBrixton · 08/11/2011 12:54

You poor thing, it's horrid when it seems like the birth you had in mind is starting to go down the pan. I wanted a hospital waterbirth with gas and air, whereas DS wanted to wedge his head sideways in my pelvis so it was out of the pool and off to theatre for forceps. There are so many different ways to labour and give birth, just try to focus on the fact that soon you'll be holding your new baby, easier said than done I know! Good luck!

GirlWithTheMouseyHair · 08/11/2011 15:17

oh love I'm sorry things have started off on the wrong foot, try to keep positive - the pessary and drip may have to happen but don't worry that every intervention will do, and if it does as you say you and your baby are the most important thing - you can still have your music and other ambiance stuff in hospital. Best of luck that it kicks off properly soon and is swift and you're holding your baby in your arms very soon

PANCHEY · 08/11/2011 16:09

It doesn't have to be all intervention. Just the other day my sister who is a midwife said that she delivered a lady who had been induced with no further interevention.

Good luck.

OneOf8 · 08/11/2011 16:37

Hope everything is going ok for you, and best of luck.

I was disappointed to need an induction due to waters going early and labour failing to start - but afterwards having a baby that was healthy was far more important.

In my situation things could have been so different so I am grateful for the intervention as saved my son.

Look at the positives, soon you will have your baby in your arms

CombineArvester · 08/11/2011 19:27

When my waters broke before labour (and early) with my eldest, I had 24 hours with no action at all. I burst into tears on the ward thinking I would end up with forceps / elcs etc. They then went for induction (due to prematurity no hanging around) but when they examined me my cervix was already dilating. They shoved me straight on the drip to speed things up but DS was born with only 4.5 hrs active labour and no probs pushing, tiny tear, no probs at all apart from prematurity.

Labour was fine really even with stupid drip.

And by the time you read this you will probably have a nice fat baby so it will all be academic.

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