dd was born after a 30 minute pushing stage. the labour was straightforward and i managed with gas and air.
immediatly afterwards i was injected without being asked (too busy being overwhelmed by the little mite!) and the midwife yanked hard on the cord, which then broke off inside me.
i was given two hours for the placenta to be expelled, but it didn't happen so i ended up with a spinal block in theatre, which meant leaving the baby for an hour and a half, which was really hard to do!
i am wondering if it is normal for them to pull so hard and if this could have led to me failing to deliver it naturally
has anyone had a similar experience or any advice?