I'm 40+1 with my second baby and went to the MW this morning for a sweep. The MW did her usual checks first - BP, etc - but when she came to feel my bump she couldn't tell which end was the head. She rang MAU and got me a presentation scan earlier this afternoon which showed that baby is definitely breech (bum is in my pelvis) and that she's also on the large side.
They've booked me for an EVC on Wednesday morning, provided I don't go into labour in the meantime (I had a show this morning and have had some niggling pains but nothing regular or increasing in strength). They want a growth scan before they decide anything on the EVC though because baby might be over 5kg, in which case they'd recommend a c-section anyway so the EVC would be pointless.
Has anyone had any experience with EVC? And any experience with having a c-section? It's the section that's scaring me the most, I'm not at all calm about the idea of a drip and an epidural, and I'm hypermobile so I have awful thoughts about the epidural not working properly (happened to my cousin and they/she didn't realise until the caesarean started). I know it's all just me worrying because it's happening so fast and the hospital have been brilliant, really understanding, I'd just like to hear some positive experiences of both scenarios :)
Also does anyone know how to complain about a community MW? I'm not going to do anything until after DD is delivered and everything has calmed down but the hospital raised a few issues. At 37 weeks the community MW thought DD was breech but didn't refer me for a scan because the MAU phone was engaged, instead she did a repeat check a few days later and said she was wrong and baby was head down and fully engaged (obviously not the case). The hospital said I should have been referred to make sure, regardless of the follow-up appointment the MW did. My fundal height was measuring in line with my weeks and I had been spot on, then at 37 weeks I suddenly jumped to 39cm and at 38 weeks was 41 cm, but at 39 weeks was 39cm. The hospital said I should have been sent for a growth scan when it suddenly jumped as I crossed from the 50th percentile to well over the 91st percentile and they're concerned that procedure hasn't been followed for either of these issues. I know that sending me a scan wouldn't have unbreeched my baby or made her any smaller but at least I would be far less stressed because I'd have time to get my head around the situation! I feel really let down by the community MW but no idea where to take my concerns.
Thanks in advance, sorry for the essay!