I couldn't sleep so I've been browsing on Amazon for books on childbirth as I'm nearly 36 weeks pregnant with my second and cacking it. But... there are two and a half thousand books on pregnancy on Amazon! So does anyone have any recommendations? My criteria are:
- Not American (since I'm in the UK) or relating to childbirth in the States
Not too hippyish, although some earth mother stuff is OK (I quite like S Kitzinger for example, although I think she talks rubbish sometimes*)
- Not negative or full or criticism of midwifery/the health service in general, I know it's sometimes rubbish but I'm looking for positive thinking type stuff, not a state of the nation type tome
- Must be able to order it asap
- I have Birthing From Within and it's a bit too hippy chick for me (drawings of cave women etc., to give you an idea!)
- Can't stand Miriam Stoppard so nothing too preachy either (none of this don't eat ham stuff thanks)
Am I asking for the impossible? I want somethng with a title like "how to get over fear of childbirth (even if you've done it before) with lots of positive thoughts and mind exercises that will help you get through it and cope really well without going into hosptial and having full on drugs" Are there any books that really helped you and if so, what are they? TIA, any suggestions gratefully received