I have type 1 diabetes which makes me naturally high risk. With ds (now 4) I was induced at 38+6 because that was the policy for diabetics in the hospital, he was OP and I ended up with an EMCS 21 hours later for failure to progress at 8cm. Not pleasant and I was keen to avoid this happening again. So I switched to another hospital in the next pg which allowed diabetics to go to 40 wks instead of 39 knowing that after a cs I couldn't be induced and thinking an extra week would give more of a chance of it happening naturally. I miscarried, that hospital handled just about everything to do with me very badly and then I was unable to conceive for 2 years so when it miraculously happened I went back to the hospital I had ds at on the grounds that I knew the system and was under them for both diabetes and fertility anyway.
2 weeks later I discovered I was expecting twins which thankfully turned out to be DCDA so the lower risk variety.
All my appointments up to about 22 weeks had obs telling me that I would be having an ELCS that they would not advise anything but a cs and not even to consider anything else. Suddenly at 22 weeks the obs in that appt asked me if I'd like to deliver vaginally and I said that would be nice and he said well if no. 1 is head down at the right time it might be possible. The next one who was a consultant said the same. However during this period I suddenly realised that although it would be very nice to be walking around after giving birth and not flat out on pain killers for 6 weeks (I had a bad recovery) all I really wanted was 2 healthy babies and preferably a vaguely competent mother to look after them and that whatever would do this in that order is the best option.
This week's obs told me that I needed to have a birth options meeting to discuss birth plan and pretty much that I would have to have a vbac because that is now government policy because of cost cutting. My response was pretty much as above (ie I want 2 healthy babies and a healthy mother) and that what I'm concerned about is managing a vbac with dt1 and a crash section with dt2. Her response was "well you'd have to be in hospital a long time with a cs". I pointed out that I'd have to be in hospital longer with a crash section than an ELCS and anyway I know I have to be in for a minimum of 24 hours to check the babies' blood sugars.
So having now got a meeting booked to discuss options (clever obs managed to book it for a date after she'd said the babies would have to be delivered as she got the month of due date wrong by 2 months!) I'd like some advice on what to say to make sure I get the best possible outcome.
My thoughts so far are:
If I were to go into labour naturally (under no circumstances am I agreeing to any form of induction except ERM at min of 8cm if had slowed down massively - last time they went naturally pretty early on and the pain got much worse as a result)
- I'd need confirmation of what would happen if dt1 is OC but dt2 is breech or transverse as I understand that there are difficulties in turning a baby if you have a scarred uterus
- I'd need absolute written confirmation that I can move around freely during CFM (mw in AN class said I could last time but mw in labour ward refused)
- Advice on when is the best point to have an epidural in given that it can slow down labour and because of previouse cs no sintocin could be used to counteract this effect
- How long I'd have to deliver dt2 if I did succeed with dt1 and the chances of this happening.
- No instrumental delivery.
I know on the guidelines I'm a really bad candidate for vbac. I had a cs for failure to progress, no previous vaginal birth, type 1 diabetes and now twins. Although in theory it would be lovely to not have a cs and have a perfect water birth type thing I know that will never happen so I just need to make sure that this is the best possible experience for all of us and principally the babies. So any birth plan would be aimed at trying to make sure that if I did vbac it wouldn't end in major damage to me or another exhausting and traumatic emcs.
Does anyone have any suggestions on how to handle this meeting?