Hi ladies,
Thanks for your replies! I'm also hoping for a water birth in the birth unit. I wanted one with my first baby, who was born in Oxford in 2009 - I planned to use the pool in the midwife-led unit there, but unfortunately when my waters broke there was meconium in them, so I had to give birth on my back on a bed, strapped up to various monitoring machines! My advice is to have a back-up option available in case you can't use the pool - I had a TENS machine. And after really stressing last time about whether the pool would be free (there's only one in the MW unit at Oxford), I'm not so worried this time. A birth on 'dry land' isn't a disaster.
I also looked at the online tour, but of course that doesn't help with issues about staffing levels and general atmosphere. I did read on the website that, if you give birth in the birth unit, you can stay in the birth room until you're ready to leave (i.e. they don't move you to a ward). I guess that means that the unit can't be that much in demand, otherwise they would surely want to free up their birth rooms more quickly - so hopefully the pools won't be chock a block!
I've also heard good things about Stroud. It's too far away for us to consider (we're near Tewkesbury), but also I don't want the risk of an ambulance ride to hospital if there's anything amiss. That's what makes the birth unit within the hospital seem ideal.
I try not to worry too much about horror stories. People are far more likely to talk about the one horror story than the hundred good but boring experiences, so it's probably not representative of what's likely to happen to you. I think the same goes for online reviews (there are reviews of hospitals on the netmums site) - people are more likely to go online to moan about a bad experience than to report a good one. I recently read the reviews for the hospital in Oxford where I had DD, and I didn't relate to any of the bad experiences reported there ... plus some people just like a moan (one reviewer complained about staff wearing hard-soled shoes, because the footsteps keep patients awake at night :D). Well, hopefully some new mums will have time to join this thread and give us a balanced view ...
Good luck with your pregnancies.
Rebecca x