Morning everyone,
Have name changed for this, as I know that feelings can run high when people say they are thinking of suing the NHS.
Short story is that DC1 is almost 8 months old and I have suffered from a variety of birth injuries, including infected and open tears, damage to my back and pelvis, rectocele, cystocele, prolapse and double incontinence. Had some scans last week and the 2nd degree tear I was diagnosed with immediately after the birth was a misdiagnosis. In fact, I ripped all the way through the pelvic floor muscle. Whilst they stitched back the skin, they didn't stitch back the muscle. Those of you who have suffered similar birth injuries will know what a devastating impact this has had on me. It continues to effect my ability to have a "normal" life with my DC. I have no idea when I will be well again, nor when I will be able to contemplate a second pregnancy - I am almost 40, so this is a decision that I need to make soon.
No idea whether the birth could have been handled differently nor whether there was a point when I should have gone for EMCS. But the fact remains that they did not stitch me up properly and I am now facing reconstructive surgery. I believe that this could constitute negligence.
I am still undecided what to do, but am thinking of suing the hospital. I would be very grateful if anyone who has gone through this could give me some advice over things like how to find a lawyer and share some of their experiences over what was involved, how long it took, etc. I don't really want to get into a discussion of whether it is "right" or "wrong" to sue the NHS, either in general or in my case. Thanks.