Oh dear, you have been through the ringer haven't you?
I can't advise you on the emotional impact, but I was induced, and then ended up with a c-section anyway due to failure to progress (I was 1cm dilated after 5 hours of labour on syno drip) and foetal distress.
My experience was that the induction when my DS clearly wasn't ready (I was induced at term due to gestational diabetes) was never going to work for him. He wasn't engaged, and when the syno drip was turned up his heartrate fell, and when it was turned down the contractions just stopped.
It was rather painful (until I had an epidural).
My c-section was very calm, DS wasn't in any danger (although might have been if we had continued with labour) and was really fine. It felt odd but not painful, just bizarre. I had an excellent recovery - was on my feet the next day, driving within a week etc. I took it fairly easy - will you have someone to help you around the house etc? DH did anything "physical" for the first few days.
If I have another baby I would request an ELCS without a second thought. Hopefully because of my c-section I would never be induced anyway. But the induction labour was nothing like I had hoped. I couldn't move as when I did DS's heart rate dropped, I couldn't go in the bath as I was wired up to the machine, I had one contraction immediately following another (hence the epidural) - it certainly wasn't in any way a "natural" process, which, for me, is the whole point of giving birth vaginally.
Everyone's different though. I think I was probably lucky with my recovery, but other mums I have chatted with have had varying recoveries with both natural and c-section births.
Good luck - and remember, once you hold your baby in your arms no one will give a tiny rat's ass how he/she was expelled from your body.