We live a long way from family and have a lovely little boy who is desperately clingly (19 months). I am due to have a 2nd in April, and if it is during the day and when ds goes to nursery, fine and if it is at night, then also fine because a neighbour could probably come and spend the night, except maybe at weekends because they go away. The upshot of all this is that I am quite likely to have to labour alone this time and while everything went like a textbook last time, that doesn't mean it will again and I am a little scared of being in a situation with noone to speak up for me.
I am considering a doula... Any advice gratefully received. Many thanks.